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stormy March 20th, 2007 01:09 PM

Here I am sick as a dog and now I am going to have to go get the girls and take them to ballet. I called David at work today and asked him if he could go get the girls and just bring them home. No he can't do that. He has the nerve to tell me to get my butt up and get to town and take care of business. No comment on why he can't help. Of course this was after our disagreement this morning about housekeeping. I have had sick children for the last week and half. So there has been no way I could do it. I have done what I could do. Not mentioning he has been out of town, then went scuba diving and went up to farm when he got back in town. And then he is going tomorrow out of town. So it is not like I am getting tons of help. Well i am finish complaining/venting.

Colee March 20th, 2007 05:10 PM

How inconsiderate of him :confused: (((HUGS))) I am so sorry!! I wish we all lived on the same block and we could rotate on days one felt good and another didnt...then we could all help each other!

Joe has gotten really bad about helping me too. He used to do so much for me. Now it's like I am a maid/Mom...nothing more,nothing less. It took me about 3 hours to clean my living/dining/kitchen today...and I never even got a "WOW the house looks nice"...That made me cry all over again.

These men will just never understand how hard everyday living is...then add chronic pain and illness on top of it!

I'm sorry your day was crummy

stormy March 21st, 2007 10:21 AM

He met me up at the girls ballet and picked them. He was supposed to be there at 4 but came at 4:36 but I am happy he came. He then took them to Mr. Gene Beans to get ice cream and then to ballet again. He took Gwendi to get pizza and brought it home afterwards. I slept till 7 and then the girls help clean the house. I took a warm shower with Jeanne. Jeanne never lets me get a shower by myself. :lol: Around 9pm I went to sleep. So I did get some rest and help after all.

the_elmel March 28th, 2007 11:20 PM

Sometimes men can be insensitive and not understand how important it is to be helpful. Maybe he's stressed. Or maybe he needs a little evil glare from you. :lol:

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