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stucklikeglue December 7th, 2012 01:10 PM

so I was wondering...
Some of you ladies have been on this board a long time, has anyone ran into their dsc's bm? What I mean is here you are posting about how this and that is going and how you feel about something and then here is bm posting as well and you didnt realize it till certain things lined up?

I was laying in bed last night wondering that lol

My2miracles December 7th, 2012 01:17 PM

Re: so I was wondering...
Fortunately no. My stepkids are 14 & 18 so bm wouldn't be on the same site. Plus she's too busy with men to be on a parenting site :lol:

stucklikeglue December 7th, 2012 01:24 PM

Re: so I was wondering...
^lol I had to ask, I mean I never have but it definitely had me wondering! :P

Ember Rose December 7th, 2012 02:37 PM

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It's something I think about. R's mom is pregnant so her jumping onto a forum like this is a possibility now. But we don't have that many issues with R and her mom so running into her here wouldn't bother me I don't think. M's mom...I think she'd be on a site like this but she doesn't have a computer so that's a small blessing in and of itself.

plan4fate December 7th, 2012 03:35 PM

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I haven't seen anyone with a story like ours. lol.

L knows I have this site, we've discussed (with out names) some of the topics that have come up, and how we plan on handling it.

And since it's no more kids for them, she'd have no reason to join jm.

stresswife December 7th, 2012 09:54 PM

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I've had that worry, but I really don't think she would ever join a mommies group. she uses the net to find men..

stucklikeglue December 7th, 2012 11:22 PM

Re: so I was wondering...
I dont know what I would do if one of the bms was one here, the blended families page. Its a place where I come for advice and vents...

Keakie December 8th, 2012 06:58 AM

Re: so I was wondering...
My dsc's bm posts on a different site. I highly doubt she'd want to participate on any others, including JM - the board she's on promotes a specific parenting method and she doesn't do well in environments where people parent much differently from one another.

mom2more December 8th, 2012 10:09 PM

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I don't think hubby's ex would be on here. She is a stepparent, but not really. Meaning her bf that she had her other 3 kids with had 4 kids with his first wife. But he doesn't have anything to do with them, so neither does she.

I have wondered before what would happen if she stumbled upon a site I was on. But then I realized that she couldn't do anything! Everything is true and she would probably feel dumb bringing it up to me.

K.A.T December 10th, 2012 05:59 PM

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She would have no reason to since she never plans to have any more kids. I think I recall a poster who did have that issue. The BM never posted on our board but did post on another JM board. Poor girl was so paranoid about anything she ever typed out.

stucklikeglue December 10th, 2012 09:29 PM

Re: so I was wondering...
thats how I would be, call me crazy but for some reason she thinks the world revolves around her and that we are never right. So there for anything I say would be txted to dp and then he would be yelled at (another word ) for it and I would then have no place to vent or learn

Rachel December 10th, 2012 10:20 PM

I'm pretty sure she reads my posts at least. I make it no secret that I'm an Admin here so I'm sure she could easily find my posts. It's whatever.

Wisey December 11th, 2012 12:49 PM

If she does it's all true so if she had issues she would know she needs to change! Lol

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