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ShesaDreamer February 1st, 2013 07:21 PM

Deep Breath....
We filed papers today to modify the custody arrangement in the event BM gets out of jail. We are asking that visitation be suspended until she has a home, some transportation and a job that she has kept and is stable. Then for the visits to be increased slowly and supervised so that we can monitor for behavior issues in K again. Because right now he is a totally different kid. Like 180. It's amazing. We did express that we think it's important for them to have a relationship with BM but not if it is going to cause behavioral and emotional issues like it has. Right now we aren't even sure if she will get out, she went back for probation violation. She missed 2 reports, skipped 7 community service appointments and missed 2 of the restitution payments she was supposed to make. So we should know on Wensday what is happening. Thats when she goes to court. We are still waiting for our hearing date obviously. I know everything is in our favor but it still makes me nervous.

plan4fate February 1st, 2013 11:46 PM

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I hope that works out for you. She's had enough failed chances to warrant some action being taken in the best interest of those kids...

ShesaDreamer February 2nd, 2013 06:15 AM

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Yeah the things that works for us is we have DHHR agreeing that a change needs to be made for the safety and emotional health of the kids.

stresswife February 2nd, 2013 08:33 AM

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fingers crossed!

Keakie February 4th, 2013 05:38 PM

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:hug: Good luck! I hope that you're able to get something in place. She's done so much to those poor boys.

w292737 February 5th, 2013 08:23 AM

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good luck!

Wisey February 5th, 2013 04:24 PM

Good luck.

CJRPete February 5th, 2013 07:18 PM

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You sound like you have all your ducks in a row.
I know how scary court is though, so hugs for going through that. Good luck!!! :)

stucklikeglue February 5th, 2013 09:36 PM

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:dothug: fingers crossed!!

SSGMama February 6th, 2013 11:49 AM

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Good Luck! I hope you get all you've asked for and that the BM takes her time getting her shiza together LOL

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