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August 1st, 2008, 07:55 PM
Join Date: Jul 2008
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Hi everyone, My name is D and I just found out that i was pregnant today. I found out using a hpt. Im a senior in college and I really don't know what to do. Its difficult for me because im scared of what my family will say let alone my child's father family would say. Its so hard because the father wants me to consider an abortion and i didn't want to make that an option due to the fact that I had one before because my childs father at the time wanted me to have one. Can someone please give me some type of advice because I honestly don't know what to do. I barely can take care of myself and i know i can't take care of a child.
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August 1st, 2008, 10:21 PM
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Location: Clovis, CA
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First off welcome to unplanned pregnancy. Secondly talk with your family and look for support through them to help you make your decision. It seems to me that you do not want to go through with another abortion so adoption maybe your best option since you do not think you can care for a child. I would also take the time to make the decision. You do not have to deciede things right this second. Good luck and please continue to post here. There are lots of ladies here who have been where you are! Big hugs coming your way.

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August 2nd, 2008, 01:51 PM
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It doesn't matter what other people in your life think or feel about the situation. You have to be happy with your choices for you & your baby.

Good luck with whatever you decide!
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August 4th, 2008, 01:58 PM
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Hi. I hope you make the decision that is best for you and your baby. If you are a senior in college.. that means you should be graduating eventually and maybe moving on with your life and getting a job. Yes babies are alot to take care of but you will manage. Best of luck.
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