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August 12th, 2008, 06:31 AM
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Hi all, I went to the DR yesterday for my first appt, and it seems that my dates are off (by a month or so), which pretty much means, my baby may have stopped developing some time back. The doctor only measured me manually (no u/s), so I still have a teeny bit of hope left. Maybe he was just wrong, and ultrasound may indicate differently, however I may not have an u/s done for another week, which is just insane! I did have bloodwork done yesterday, so maybe blood levels may be able to show something. Im freaking out. I most certainly was not prepared for another baby right now, and the whole idea was driving me nuts, but in no way did I want this baby to stop existing. It gets me so sad to think about a loss. Im already a mother of 2 kids, with this one gone, I feel a part of me is missing, a part of the family is just gone. Its so crazy. Im so sad. I hope things take another turn, but I have a bad feeling. With what the doctor told me yesterday, and my lack of symptoms, things dont look positive.
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August 12th, 2008, 11:01 AM
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I know how scary this must be for you. When I first got pregnant I had bleeding and even passed a clot. Had a few u/s's and they didnt see anything. But here I sit almost to my 3rd trimester. I had my dates off as well by about 2 weeks or so. I wish you nothing but the best. When do they expect your blood results to be in?

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August 12th, 2008, 07:33 PM
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I am praying for you and your baby. Hoping that everything is fine in there!
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August 12th, 2008, 08:00 PM
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Keep positive! Doctor's have been know to make mistakes. T&P with you.
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August 16th, 2008, 12:41 AM
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They certainly have been known to make mistakes. Sending you good wishes and please do not blame yourself that you sent bad thoughts that way. Hope to hear how you went soon.
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