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January 22nd, 2006, 01:17 PM
Join Date: Dec 2005
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Take it day by day. If you two do get "intimate" again (sorry, I've just been so sexually UNactive recently that I can't even say the word.... ), be absolutely sure you use the condoms. What you need to do is have a talk with him, let him know that you need him to be more forceful about the condom thing. I'm sure he doesn't want a "woopsies" again, and you're still so young and in school. He's just going to have to be "a man" about it, and if he wants to do it, he's gonna have to "wrap" it, no questions asked. No starting without...We all know we can get caught up in the moment! So precaution and communication may help with this.

And if you do get pregnant again, well, I guess it's just one of those things! You'll need to be strong, and you'll need support. There are always places you can go for help, and people you can talk to.

At this point, you need to sit down and think of what you want in life. Is a baby right now going to make things harder for you? If it's preventable and it's something you both don't want in life right now, then you need to make sure you don't get yourself in a position where you'd be risking that. If you start to get all "hot and bothered " around him and things even just remotely start, first thought in your head should be "condom". Or maybe you could even start taking the pill. That may work for you too.

Either way, good luck, keep us posted and take care!

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January 22nd, 2006, 03:04 PM
missy123's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Nov 2005
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Sweetheart it is so easy to get caught up in the moment and things happen. Especially when you are young. Take a deep breath and try to relax. Lets hope and pray you dont end up pregnant. You went through so much such a short time ago.

Big Hugs,

Pregnancy Loss April 2009, September 2010
CP 10/2008, 1/3/11 {missing my babies every single day}Mommy to 4 Children - 3 boys ages 22, 21 and 18 & baby Scarlett
After 2.5 years TTC with 4 losses our Family was given the gift of Miss Scarlett
Do not ever give up hope...

Miss Scarlett... Our miracle girl still brings happy tears to my eyes.

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