Log In Sign Up

whats wrong with me!!

Forum: Unplanned Pregnancy


Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to [email protected].

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Unplanned Pregnancy LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
February 2nd, 2006, 04:45 PM
Mom2DyJessAva's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: chicopee ma
Posts: 15,513
i dont no whats wrong with me anymore.. im constantly thinking that my bf is flirting with other girls...i cant help it!..he has done it before and i even talked to one of the girls that told me he was flirting with her and that was the last time..i never even thought about it but now its like im constantly worrying that hes flirting with other girls (maybe its because im pregnant)...i no deep down i trust him but its just hard too..theres times that i just feel like telling him to just leave me alone (for as long as possible) while he gets over his little boy ##### and when hes ready to act a man and stop flirting then come back to me..but i dont wanna because i dont want to accuse him of anything that i dont no for a fact hes doing....i think im just overly thinking..###### im glad i have this board to come to..what would i do without u guys!! id be lost take care everyone!

Reply With Quote
February 2nd, 2006, 09:42 PM
momma06's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Missouri
Posts: 1,645
Send a message via MSN to momma06 Send a message via Yahoo to momma06
All I can say is try not to worry about it. My b/f has done the same thing to me and all throughout my pregnancy I was thinking he was flirting w/ other girls...even after I had the baby. It's getting better now though. Don't accuse him of anything because that could put your relationship on the rocks and right now that wouldn't be a good thing. Take care!

Reply With Quote
February 3rd, 2006, 05:40 AM
Mom2DyJessAva's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: chicopee ma
Posts: 15,513
Thanks a whole bunch for the reply

Reply With Quote
February 3rd, 2006, 08:56 AM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: West Virginia
Posts: 1,668
I had an ex-bf that used to flirt all the time with other women and it would drive me crazy (as a matter of fact, my ex-DH used to do that too). I absolutely hated it because it made me feel that I wasn't good enough...or pretty enough to keep his attention.

Thank God I kicked him to the curb (he was also physically abusive - and ex-dh...he left me for another woman - who, after almost 16 yrs, he is still with so that was meant to be)!

Anyways, my current DH (of 10 yrs) doesn't flirt at all that I know of...he respects me enough to not do it in front of me. Its such a relief and a big change from my previous relationships.

I agree that you shouldn't accuse him, but maybe you can sit down with him and give him an honest heart to heart talk (and I mean talk...no yelling, no accusing, no pointing fingers)...tell him how much it bothers you and that you really need his support (especially since you are getting bigger and bigger each day).

I dream about my DH cheating on me almost daily lately. I just tell him about it and laugh it off. Your pregnancy hormones could be getting the best of you....which is ok because it happens to all of us.

Take care and good luck to you. I hope things work out.

I love my 3 girls and little boy:

Mom to Jessica - 19 yrs old, Amber - 18 yrs old, Sebastian - 2 months
Reply With Quote
February 7th, 2006, 03:17 PM
Mommy2Ethan's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: warwick, RI
Posts: 5,093
unless you really know hes flirting... i would just try and not let it bother you...my emotions are the same way due to being pregnant and believe me accusing them of something makes it 100 x worse!

Ethan Michael 4/13/2006 8 lbs 12 oz 19 inches
Hunter Evan 7/29/2010 9 lbs 1 oz 20 1/2 inches
~Having a baby on my chest being serenaded by my beating heart is nothing short of amazing...~

Reply With Quote

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 07:12 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.9
Copyright ©2000 - 2018, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0