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November 8th, 2012, 09:47 AM
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yes i am only 16. i didnt think it would happen i dont even get regular periods
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November 29th, 2012, 11:00 AM
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December 12th, 2012, 12:14 AM
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I've had two
Heike: 05/13/1996
Johanna: 04/20/2013
Christine: 02/05/2015
EDD: 03/30/2017

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August 3rd, 2013, 02:36 AM
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Posts: 25
This is my first pregnancy and unplanned.
Felix: 01/05/2014

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August 3rd, 2013, 06:18 PM
ducksaresnazzy's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Location: new york
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this is my first pregnancy at all.. my boyfriend and i knew we wanted kids (we conceived this one around our 2yr anniversary) but not this soon. it's kinda funny, though, because he jumped right on the baby bandwagon and i'm still very.. concerned.
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September 2nd, 2013, 08:59 PM
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Yes, my first ever pregnancy. I'm 18 almost 19
Sarah & Daniel = Surprise Baby
Estimated Due Date = May 6 2014
Got my home pregnancy test on Aug. 31st 2013 6 days late for AF
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September 3rd, 2013, 11:29 PM
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Posts: 17
This is my first unplanned pregnancy.
Christine: 03/13/2007
Johanna: 11/20/2010
EDD: 05/02/2014

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February 9th, 2014, 11:45 PM
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Posts: 21
this is my 3rd.
Michael: 05/01/1995
Gabriele: 11/30/1996
Kevin 01/01/2003
Johanna 04/20/2010
EDD: 09/29/2014

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April 28th, 2014, 03:19 AM
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Posts: 15
This is my first pregnancy and unplanned.

EDD: 12/20/2014
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June 23rd, 2014, 08:30 PM
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Location: Greenville, SC
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Originally Posted by jking86 View Post
This is my first pregnancy and it was unplanned. me and the father have been together 6 months. I was really excited in the beginning but as each day goes on I am realizing the financial struggle is not going to get any easier. I have recently been contemplating... the alternative. I am so personally against it though. I just get really REALLY scared that I will not be able to provide for this child like I want or need to. I started coming to this message board for support and advice, and I would love yours. Thank you.
This is my first pregnancy and is also unplanned. I live in South Carolina but I'm sure there's help in the place you live! I've already gotten on Medicaid, have WIC and applied for food stamps. I also work as well, so I feel like I deserve the help I can get. My fiance works too, but we just moved into our second apartment so we weren't expecting this. Look up ways the state can help you raise your baby! You're not in this alone!!
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July 14th, 2014, 03:44 PM
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Location: London, Ontario
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Welll I've had 5 unplanned pregnancies.. I've had 1 termination and 3 miscarriages and am currently 8 weeks pregnant and hoping this little lovebug sticks!! We technically weren't really trying or preventing it from happening though!
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August 18th, 2014, 11:38 PM
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This is my first pregnancy and unplanned.

Kevin: 02/15/2015

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December 21st, 2014, 10:34 PM
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my first pregnancy was unplanned. I was 18, we were using condoms and I got pregnant.
my 2nd pregnancy WAS planned, I was married at the time (not same dad as my first baby). after having been on birth control for 6 years I got pregnant with her in 4 months. I was 26 when she was born. things did not work out with her dad and we divorced.

I'm now 31 and pregnant with my 3rd. I'm remarried. and I was using Nuvaring up to 2 months ago, at which point in time we had to replace a vehicle and could no longer afford the birth control (no health insurance, the ring cost $108/ month). we thought we could get by with just using condoms.. but it seems condoms are useless when it comes to preventing babies for me.
the timing is not the greatest for us, but things will somehow work out. we're just having a baby a couple years sooner than we had planned.
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February 3rd, 2015, 12:39 PM
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This is my first unplanned pregnancy. I'm not with the father, but I got the Medicaid health insurance, working currently, and just need to get up the where with all to tell my family. The biological father goes from not wanting to be involved to partially wanting to and around it goes. So, I'm not putting too much stock in that. He does work full-time so if anything I will receive some child support after baby. I'm focusing on the positive as much as possible, but the situation does tend to get me sad at times.
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February 3rd, 2015, 06:41 PM
Mrs.Black2006's Avatar Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by Worstluck View Post
First and last! How can anybody make the same mistake twice? I can understand if you're not trying and not preventing but how can something like this just happen?
condoms break, birth control is ineffective, etc. So many things can happen.
Thank you SSWC maker for my amazing siggy
TTC 7+ years
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February 8th, 2015, 01:56 PM
Loving My Piglets
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: England, UK
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#1 and #4 were planned.#2 #3 and #5 were unplanned.

Its kinda strange, we didn't plan #2 or #3 to come so soon but yet once they were here we were obv over the moon and so happy we knew we wanted more so went ahead and planned and tried for #4 so in a way I say that #2 and #3 were planned as we wanted to have four children, just the timing and when they came wasnt planned then #5 came as a surprise also but we are happy again to be adding another to our crazy house hold
..together for 12 years..

R (10) 24.04.06 - our little angel
R (9) 07.06.07
L (8) 05.06.08
L (6) 26.04.10
C (3) 15.02.13

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October 4th, 2015, 12:58 AM
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This is my 2nd
Christine: 02/15/2000
Michael: 01/01/2016Melanie: 02.02.2017
EDD: 07.02.2018
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