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December 19th, 2009, 02:22 PM
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This is by far the most embarrassing thing Ive ever talked about, but at the same time I know Im not the only one whos going thru it. My husband and I divorced back in April. And we were both seeing other people. My last menstrual period was Oct. 2nd. and I was with the guy I was dating on the 12th. Then my ex and I started talking again ad wondering if we could make things work. So I ended up having sex with him on the 18th and 19th, and so on. My period are usually around 30 to 32 days. Im really hoping its my ex's because we already have 1 child together and I think we really have a chance of makin it work. Im gonna get a paternity test done either way. Just wondering what other thoughts were. Thanks.
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December 19th, 2009, 07:42 PM
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its to close to make a call one way or the other based on the dates,

paternity test time
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December 19th, 2009, 09:14 PM
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you can try to use a conception predicter on google to figure out when your most likely time of conception was like if it was closer to the end or the beginning of that time.. But it IS really close together, definitly would probably be best to get the paternity.

Good luck!!
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December 20th, 2009, 07:04 PM
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I agree with all the PP. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for ya hun.

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December 20th, 2009, 07:36 PM
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This is the one I used when I started worrying that I might be pregnant. Sure enough, I had unprotected sex on the day I ovulated!

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December 21st, 2009, 02:41 AM
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I would say based on your LMP and length of your cycle it is probably your exs baby but I think only a paternity test will put your mind at ease.
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December 21st, 2009, 04:35 PM
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I think 10 days after the start of your period is too soon to get pregnant from. Sperm can live for around 5days which would put the last couple days of the sperm from the 12th the first or so day of a fertile period. Your luteal phase would be anywhere from 12-16 days. I would say more than likely this baby is your ex's.
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January 23rd, 2010, 03:46 PM
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dang thats gotta hurt hmmmm only time will tell guys are jerks
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January 23rd, 2010, 05:48 PM
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I have been in this position as well. If you are your SO are trying to make it work again then it maybe a good idea just to call it his. If he is willing.

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