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February 19th, 2010, 02:11 AM
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I have just found out that i am around 3 weeks pregnant, Me and my partner have only been together around 6 months and are going through a really bad patch to the point of splitting as he has been lying to be alot when he shouldnt be. Now he knows we are pregnant he is being very supportive and does not want me to have a termination and said he will seek councelling for his lying problem as he has done it to ex girlfriends. I dont feel secure and im so scared i will be a single mother and wont be able to cope. He never had a father around as he walked out on him at the age of 3 so he has always said the mother of his child will always be by his side with his child. (he is 26)

2 other things that are worrying me alot are:

I had anti-biotics for a urinary infection
I had an ultra sound scan to check my urinary system 3 days ago

could this of harmed the baby? i read that it can deaden all the babies senses?

I dont have any friends who are mothers that i talk to alot so i hope someone can guide me and help me.

A confused girl x
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February 19th, 2010, 07:28 AM
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If you don't mind I am going to e-mail you ok? I can relate to your post so much!
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February 19th, 2010, 07:32 AM
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First of all, congrats. Secondly, I've been in the same kind of situation with my DH. We almost broke up several times while I was pregnant with DS #1.
I would just stop taking the pills until you can see a dr. I'm not sure whats safe and whats not in that situation. & Ultrasounds are completely fine. We have ultrasounds all the time to check on the baby

Feel free to email me if you need someone to talk to.
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February 19th, 2010, 09:26 AM
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Bella how do i check my email on here???

Thank you think pink, when should i go to the doctors? Im so stressed at the moment im waking up in the middle of the night gasping for breathes. I just wish i wasnt at bad time. im so confused, i no the easy option out is to terminate but i feel thats selfish and ive made my bed i should lay in it and there are women who cant have children out there so i need to be very grateful.
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February 19th, 2010, 09:53 AM
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I'm not sure how it works there, but, here I have to have to go a clinic and get a confirmation, from there, they refer me to an OB, and the clinic calls me with the date and time. If you choose that route, I'm sure you can also ask the clinic about your urinary infection. If you don't need a referral, and can just makes an appointment with the OB office itself or if you already have one (Usually they're OB/GYN) then call and make an appointment, and ask the secretary about the urinary infection and your presription.
Good Luck!
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February 22nd, 2010, 05:23 PM
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congrats! here in PA they do the 1st u/s @ bout 8-10wks. I would call and see about going in to a first appt.. which is usually just to talk to a nurse and get confirmation that you are pregnant. And ask the nurse about your meds for your urinary infection. again congrats and I hope everything works out for you and that your SO goes through with counseling.
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February 22nd, 2010, 07:55 PM
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Dont worry! I had an UTI with my son when I was 4-5 months prego and had to take antibiotics but they prescribed me one's that would not harm the baby. He is now 4 and smart as can be!
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