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March 8th, 2010, 07:34 PM
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Okay..keep up if you can..

I'm currently 8 months pregnant, and my due date is April 21st. I'm pretty sure the father of my child is my boyfriend of 4 years..but just to make sure I'm thinking clearly..

During a difficult time in our relationship..I foolishly cheated on my boyfriend with a loser (ugh..) which fell on the 7th of July in 2009..After that mess..I had a period on the 14th until the 16 or the 17th..after that..I was with my boyfriend (OF JULY)the 21st, the 26th, the 30th and the 2nd of August (I know, right?..)..my boyfriend doesn't know of my mistake but he's kinda iffy about the child's paternity. His reason is (as dumb as it sounds..): "We've been trying for 3 years..and you didn't get pregnant until you started going out and stuff."..Which I kinda do take into consideration..because I haven't gotten pregnant UNTIL I cheated..BUT..the dates all point toward my boyfriend..I'm just confused..a little advice???

Last edited by ChynaDoll; March 8th, 2010 at 07:42 PM. Reason: better title..
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March 8th, 2010, 08:01 PM
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you go to one of the ttc boards and ask -- they are super knowledgable about that stuff.
what goes around, comes around.....
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March 8th, 2010, 09:37 PM
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Conception Calculator - estimates probable conception concieve and due dates Baby2see.com

Definitely looks like conception would have fallen between 7/24 and 8/1 if you have a regular 28 day cycle.

Good luck!
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March 9th, 2010, 06:04 AM
Irish_Wristwatch's Avatar Running with Scissors....
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if the due date of april 21st is correct than i would say im about 90% sure its your boyfriends baby

you could always get a paternity test after the baby is born to put your minds at ease
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