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March 4th, 2012, 01:21 PM
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: North Carolina
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Ok..so I just found out I was pregnant on Friday..and it was a huge surprise, I have been on BC pill but got pregnant anyway. Here is a little of my backstory...I am 34 years old, I have a 13 year old daughter and a 11 year old son. Me and their dad have been seperated a year now and our divorce should be finalized by the end of March. The kids have had a rough year but they seem to be handling things well and adjusting. I started dating someone last August and eventually it became serious. He is a great guy and I am in love with him and can deff see a future with him. Neither one of my kids have met him tho...my daughter knows about him and knows we have been dating but I wanted to give them time to adjust to the divorce before I brought him into their life. So..now I am about a month pregnant and have no idea what to do!! I don't want to screw my kids up but I don't ever think I could have an abortion. Anyone who has been in a similar situation or anyone with advice would be greatly appreciated!!


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March 4th, 2012, 04:41 PM
Leogirl's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: Tennessee
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Well...there is no hiding anymore. It's time to introduce your kids to your guy and let them know he's going to be around for a long time. Then let them know that you are pregnant around the 3 or 4 month mark. Kids are highly adjustable but if they seem to have any issues make sure that they are addressed by you and by a therapist if need be.

Congrats on your LO! I hope you'll join a due date club and stick around. Please update us from time to time!

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March 6th, 2012, 01:22 PM
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: North Carolina
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Thanks Leogirl!
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