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March 21st, 2012, 03:28 PM
Country928's Avatar Marisa
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So yesterday i relazied i am a week late. I decieded to buy a cheap test just to calm my nerves as my periods have been crazy since i had my daughter in 2006. Yes she was unplanned and I didnt know I was pregnant. So today about 4:45 i took a cheap dollar test you get from the doller store. Well it said to wait 2 mins for results. In less then 60 secs two pink lines showed up as bright as they can. Im scared to death, I was not planning on having another child for a few more years as my daughter has some special needs. Im so scared im shaking. I dont really have anyone to talk too. As when my parents find out they are going to flip. Yes i am 25 and they still treat me as a little kid cause i am there only daughter. The father of the baby is going to flip also, he already has 3 kids. I dont know what to do. I have always thought i was pro life and I would never get an abortation but im seriously thinking about it. As its hard enough to support myself and my daughter.
When should I make an appt with a doctor, should I confirm by waiting till friday and buying a better test. I just dont know what to do.
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March 21st, 2012, 05:02 PM
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I am so sorry u are going through this. I know how u feel. It can be such a dark and confusing place to be.... I could never have an abortion either. I placed my first for adoption... Have U thought of that? Can u possibly parent? I have a special needs son too so I know how hard that can be as well. I you want to talk I'm here .. I'm not sure how to message in here ... Lol
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March 21st, 2012, 05:23 PM
Country928's Avatar Marisa
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As of right know i have not thought of anything. Ive been crying for the last 2 hours. I just dont know what to do. I guess the first step is to go see a doctor, since my ob the delievered my daughter is no longer practicing.
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March 21st, 2012, 05:33 PM
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Oh don't I know the crying... Here is my email.. Rahulsey at aol since I don't know how the heck to private message... Have u talk to anyone about it in the family? Email me- I'm just siting watching the muppets lol
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March 22nd, 2012, 11:00 AM
magz88's Avatar First Time Mum
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Is there a pregnancy resource centre in your area? Maybe they can help you talk through it as well.
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March 22nd, 2012, 12:17 PM
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Oh sweetie I'm so sorry you are feeling scared...

You have to do what YOU think is best for you & your daughter, and if that means not keeping it, whether abortion or adoption it's your choice and you don't owe anyone an explanation for what you decide... just remember the latter is a time sensitive decision. I think though, that your parents might surprise you & I would consider talking things through with them and then you will have support, whatever decision you make. That said, should you decide to keep the baby, that wouldn't be a bad choice either - babies are a miracle

I know it can seem overwhelming, but whatever choice you make, you can always look to us for support...


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