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June 26th, 2012, 10:47 AM
Join Date: Apr 2012
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I don't know how to feel and SO Is NOT SUPPORTIVE AT ALL. Wants me to abort it immediately. He says he'll leave if I don't. We are engaged and have been together for almost four years.

He is pressuring me and I am really scared. I'm only 20 years old. My family is supportive and will support me no matter what I do.

He just keeps saying baby please I can't be a father not now I am not ready. I know he is scared too but I'm scared of his anger.

Don't know how pregnant I am. Got my BFP 6 days late. Tested @ 2 days late and nothing. Went to doctor confirmed pregnancy but HCG levels were only 82. Date of last period was May 24th.

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June 26th, 2012, 11:16 AM
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you need to decide what YOU want. which is more important to you, your relationship or your baby? if you get an abortion, will your relationship be ruined anyway because you resent him for pressuring you to abort?

your due date should be February 28, making you 4 weeks 5 days pregnant. 82 is within the normal range for your dates.

good luck with whatever you decide to do!
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June 26th, 2012, 12:22 PM
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I agree with mrsjl. At the end of the day it's your body and you don't want to live with the feeling of regret for the rest of your life. Do what you are comfortable with and what your gut is telling you. Good luck!
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June 26th, 2012, 12:34 PM
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Before I give you any advice, I want you to understand a little about where I am coming from. Last July I was a cheerleader for a division 1 college and a state title holder for a national pageant system. The last thing in the world I was wanting was to be pregnant. I was only 21, but madly in love with an incredible guy. Needless to say, we found out we were pregnant and were at a loss for what to do.

For me personally, abortion was not an option. Life was going to be complicated, but I was going to figure it out whether or not the father wanted to be a part of its life or not. It truly was the best decision I ever made! I now have a beautiful 15 month old baby girl, am married to her father, and I am 37 weeks pregnant with our second daughter. My husband was not ready to be a husband or a father when we got pregnant, but is now the best daddy. We have had our issues in marriage like any other couple, but regardless of having him in my life or not, I could not imagine my life without my daughter! Do what is right for you, because if he trulyyou, he will support you regardless of your decision! Ultimatums have no place in marriage!

Best of luck. God bless, and my prayers are with you!
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