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November 2nd, 2012, 02:08 PM
Join Date: Oct 2012
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my pregnancy was unplanned too and although now i have planted myself in edd july 2013 board, i had to come here to share stories and to hold hands with all of you <3

SO and I are engaged but our r/s has been rocky since the engagement due to financial concerns , differences in view and our emotionally abusive parents...
I had been on diane 35 and somehow got pregnant due to flu bug and vomiting..I am now 4 weeks.
I feel i already love this little one and sway from keeping it to not keeping it,
SO had been happy with the news and then later had concerns due to our financial instability, parents not supportive and that we are different nationality and in our own home countries at the moment..
we have decided to give ourselves a week to think things through but arguments with SO over the silly and petty things, power struggle, ego, just got worse and worse and he hung up on me last night..

thanks for hearing me out

I am just wondering which of you plan to keep the baby but you dont have alot of savings, a very average job, with no family or partner support, please share your plans on babycare when you go to work, your worries, hopes and dreams etc.. thanks alot <3<3<3

Please feel free to privy msg me to chat<3<3<3

Sleepless in Asia<3<3<3
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November 3rd, 2012, 10:03 AM
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Hi there from the June 2013 DDC.

I'm 26 and my pregnancy was unplanned and shortly after finding out the baby's father broke up with me. He asked me why I wouldn't get an abortion and I simply said I couldn't. I have a decent job, but nothing great by any means. Luckily, I have a very supportive family and they're looking forward to having another baby in the family. Unfortunately, the baby's father's family is not supportive at all. He is still in the picture (we're "friends"), but his family isn't even remotely excited. I suppose that I feel the baby is meant to be and things will work out somehow.

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November 3rd, 2012, 02:57 PM
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More (((hugs))) to you! The family that is not interested it is their lost and when they see baby they always change their mind and then will be up to you if you will let them in the baby's life. Baby will understand you did all you can to protect him/her. <3<3Wishing you a good day today and lots of peaceful vibes<3<3
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November 4th, 2012, 12:22 PM
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Hi there

I'm Lucy, i'm 28 and my pregnancy wasn't planned either. When I found out he was excited, I was scared. He proposed, I said no, I didn't want to get married just because I was pregnant. We fought, thought things wouldn't work. He's from Ireland, i'm from England. He wants to raise the baby in Ireland, but I don't want to leave my family. He wanted me to quit my job because it's 'dangerous'. That didn't happen. We're slowly but surely sorting things out. He recently quit his job (he hated it, and my income is solid enough). He wants to go back and study, and right now he has a small time job. He'll look after our son when I go back to work with a little help from my mom and family (who are very supportive).

Trust me, it will all work out. Maybe not how you planned, but in the end... it should be fine
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