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November 28th, 2012, 06:46 PM
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Hi everyone. I'm 18 years old, a freshman in college and recently I went out on a date with a guy and after dinner he pressured me into losing my virginity to him. He refused to wear a condom and I was too afraid to argue with him about it. It's been 9 days (Nov 19th) since we had sex, my period started Nov 8th so the day we has sex was day 11 in my cycle.

The past few days I've had some slight back pain, headache, mild cramping and some breast tenderness. Yesterday I was peeing every hour and today I woke up with some cold symptoms.

I'm also a little afraid because on the day we had sex I had some slight brown discharge which I believe could have been ovulation spotting

The guy I slept with is no support to me at all, after I told him I didn't want to sleep with him again he told me he wants nothing to do with me... I guess that's a lesson to just say no instead of giving in to pressure.

But what do you guys think? Does these Pregnancy Symptoms sound normal or is it all in my head? I've already taken 2 EPTs but I know it's too early for a "reliable" test.

Last edited by mandy_rose; November 28th, 2012 at 08:13 PM.
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November 28th, 2012, 10:40 PM
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Mandy, I am sorry that you are having to stress over this. I feel strongly that since this is obviously weighing heavily on your mind you might be reading too much into any little twinge or ache that you normally would not think twice about. From your timeline, it does seem too early to test. Remember that most symptoms of early pregnancy match symptoms of impending AF. Even ladies experienced with pregnancies cannot figure out if they are PG or not in the early stages most of the time.

We might be able to help sort this out with you if you tell us more about your cycles...how long are they and are they very regular? But for now, you are describing symptoms that could just as easily be normal monthly changes. Please try not to stress. I know that can be hard. Keep us posted.
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November 29th, 2012, 09:32 PM
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hey thanks so much for the help

My cycles are usually pretty regular (maybe a difference of one or two days each month), they usually last around 4-5 days and they're pretty normal flow wise.

I'm still peeing a lot today (every one or two hours) and I had some slight cramping near my belly button earlier. I'm hoping I don't have a UTI (I've never had one before) but I guess that's possible
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December 2nd, 2012, 04:16 PM
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I would go to a doctor just to get checked up on. If he did not wear a condom he could have given you an STD. I am sorry you are going through this. ((hugs))

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December 5th, 2012, 01:32 AM
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I would check with a doctor. I just tested positive today and it caught me off guard. I need to set an appointment. All last week my lower back was killing me at work, Ive had headaches (those are not usual for me), my breasts were really sore but I thought my period was just coming, and I had a few twinges in my abdomen. Now I am having food aversions.
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December 6th, 2012, 08:44 AM
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How's it going? Have you been able to find out whether you are pregnant or not?
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