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February 25th, 2013, 01:06 PM
Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 29
Hi everyone,

Im new to this however I have gotten myself into a mess. On valentiness day I found out that I wbas pregnant. im in shock because I already have 6 month old not to mention im only 26. Back when she was 3 montbs I had an abortion so I dont think I can go tbrough that again. I asked my boyfriend who has been distant since the news if he sees a future with me and he daid no bcause of the way things have been going however he said he will nkt support my decision on abortion.sometimes I thunk hes scated but tben again what.jf.he leaves me with2 kids thats not fair to them
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February 26th, 2013, 12:53 PM
Join Date: Mar 2012
Posts: 21
Oh, I'm sorry you're faced with such a tough situation. I wish your boyfriend was more supportive of you right now. It's so hard to have face a pregnancy on your own. But, I do think there's help available if you're interested. Places like crisis pregnancy centers can often give you lots of assistance and support so you don't have to go through this alone. And, I know you can locate one in your area by calling something called OptionLine (1/800-712-HELP). So, just FYI. Lastly, I just wanted to say that my prayers are with you right now! Hang in there! ((hugs))
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February 27th, 2013, 05:46 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2012
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Hi hun. I'm Amber. I was 21 when I found out I was pregnant with #2. I wasn't with either father. I was alone. I was scared. I ended up going on to carry my second daughter and met my now DH while I was pregnant with her. He didn't even know I was pregnant. We've been married for almost 2 years. I'm pregnant with #4.
My point with all this is, you don't know what life has in store for you. Things could fall together beautifully. You have no way of knowing. If things don't go the way you think they should, you can do it on your own. There's plenty of options out there. If you have any questions or anything, pm me.

Good luck, and if you're due in October, the October DDC would love to have you introduce yourself! We're a bunch of supportive ladies with lots of expieriance.

PS- I'm 25 yrs old.
Amber Wife of Tim ; Mom to - (7) (4) (3), (2 months) and Step mom (9)

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