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January 25th, 2007, 07:38 PM
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Okay so heres the thing i met this guy 4 years ago and i wasnt that fond of him then but 3 years later we started to be friends then a little bit more i guess you could say... but he wasnt able to keep it in his pants and was still completely in love with his ex!!! so i backed off and left him alone after about 4 months of putting up with his s***. I had found someone else about a month after that and it almost seemed like the second he heard i had moved on he suddenly wanted something from me again so i was kind of with both of them for a week or so. Then i had my period and after my period i had sex with Matt, with protection, the day before he left for nova scotia... a week later i had sex with brad, without protection. I always used protection with Matt and i never did with Brad. Dumb i know!!! about a month later there was two pink lines on a stick. The doctor told me that i got pregnant around the 26th of august... which was over a week after matt left.
who would you think would be the father?? By the way i have been honest with both of them about everything. I personally think the father is Brad but there are still some times when i think it could be Matt. and do you think i should let both come to the hospital when i go into labor or just leave it be and wait until after the paternaty test?? please help me this has been bugging me for 5 months!!!
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January 25th, 2007, 07:54 PM
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Well, a conception date can be off by a week or two either way. If cervical mucus was present, sperm can live up to 5 days until ovulation occurs. It sounds like it's just too close to call, you will have to wait until a paternity test.

Hang in there!
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January 26th, 2007, 11:57 AM
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I think its BRad
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January 26th, 2007, 01:48 PM
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Sounding like Brad to me as well.
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January 26th, 2007, 03:52 PM
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First welcome to JM and the unplanned board and congrats on your pregnancy. Honestly it seems too close in time frame to give you a definite answer as to who it could be. Of course the chances of it being from Brad are going to increase since, I'm assuming, he ejaculated inside of you (not that a condom can't break though!). I think you should probably let both men know what's going on and you'll probably just have to wait until after your child is born for the paternity test. When are you due?!
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January 26th, 2007, 09:35 PM
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First welcome to JM and the unplanned board and congrats on your pregnancy. Honestly it seems too close in time frame to give you a definite answer as to who it could be. Of course the chances of it being from Brad are going to increase since, I'm assuming, he ejaculated inside of you (not that a condom can't break though!). I think you should probably let both men know what's going on and you'll probably just have to wait until after your child is born for the paternity test. When are you due?!
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Im due in may, they both know, i just dont talk to matt so he doesnt know as much about the baby as brad. i just dont know what to do about the whole labor thing. i know i would hate to miss the birth of my own child let alone my first one. but then again it wouldnt be to great to then find out it isnt even his after he was there and saw it all... i dont know if i should let them both know and if they want to come then they can... or should i wait until after and just tell the father about it after the paternity test
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