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July 2nd, 2005, 05:51 PM
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Hi ladies!

I was wondering what are the chances of me being pregnant?

I have only had sex once, almost a month ago, we used protection (condom, but he did change it once but never mentioned anything about a rupture or anything like that at all). He was my first and only one so far.

Well, I was supposed to get my period either 1 or 2 days ago and nothing, not even a sign that it will be here soon. No cramping, crappy feeling, or anything like that. I did get some pinkish discharge yesterday and I was so happy because I thought I would get it but still NOTHING. I do have irregular cycles, but I have only missed a period once or twice in like 5 years!

I do not have any pregnancy symptoms other than a missed period, at least not yet.

I am freaking out, seriously, freaking out! My parents would kill me if I am indeed pregnant, Gosh I don't even want to think about it. I'm sooooo scared, I'm definetly not ready for a baby and will not be for at least 10 years!

If I have not gotten my period by next weekend, I will take a pregnancy test then but I am hoping and praying that will not be necessary.

Please no one get offended by this question but does anyone know how can I get the abortion pill? Anything else that might work to make me have an abortion?

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July 2nd, 2005, 06:33 PM
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I don't have a clue where you can get an emergency contraception. I would say that you most likely don't need to worry about doing that until you take a pregnancy test, which is the FIRST thing that you should do.

If this guy was wearing a condom, then why did he change condoms during sex? I've never heard of changing a condom unless it broke or he "finished" early. I would ask him why he did that too, just to make sure that the condom didn't break. Sometimes you'll feel it break, but sometimes you won't.

My biggest piece of advice is, no matter what happens from this day forward, I would be wayyy more careful if you do not want to have a baby. I would seriously consider getting on birth control of some sort.

I hope this helps! And by the way, welcome to JM!
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July 2nd, 2005, 07:06 PM
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I was lurking in here, but just wanted to add that you should try not to worry that your period is not going to come. Sometimes the stress of worrying can delay its coming. I know it is easier said than done, but try.
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July 3rd, 2005, 09:02 AM
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I don't know the chances of you being pregnant because that just all depends if sperm got through. I just know that 60% of the time condoms work. You can get the pill at your local clinic, if you have a planned parenthood or something you can go there and ask. Ummm.........if you didn't find that pill in time then I'd take a pregnancy test if you are a week and a half to 2 weeks late. Well that's all I have.

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July 3rd, 2005, 08:10 PM
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Originally posted by Ames@Jul 2 2005, 08:06 PM
I was lurking in here, but just wanted to add that you should try not to worry that your period is not going to come.* Sometimes the stress of worrying can delay its coming.* I know it is easier said than done, but try.
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I was going to say the same thing. I've had that happen to me so many times over the years and wasted so many pregnancy tests during that time. Try and relax. I think the fact that it was your first time has you very worried and that alone is probably delaying your period.

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July 6th, 2005, 05:39 PM
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So? How'd it turn out.

My guess would be neg. If she was only a couple of days late and had only had sex once a month prior, that would have been likely JUST after her last period (if not during). Probably not PG.

I usually found when I was worried about being PG my AF would be delayed.

Cheerbear... any update?
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July 7th, 2005, 09:34 PM
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I definitely know what you're going through...when I was a little younger I was always sure I was pregnant! I would even feel sick and eat wierd things and my usually predictable period was off sometimes for 2 weeks! I've learned since then that this was most likely just because I was so scared that I was convincing myself I was pregnant...bringing on all the symptoms that go with it. They're all right, you're most likely fine, just try to think positively (which for you would be that you're not pregnant) and if a week or so has gone by, try buying a pregnancy test. Have faith...
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July 7th, 2005, 09:38 PM
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Oh, just one more thing to add...many doctors will tell you (as mine told me) that having sex for the first time (or first few times) is such a big chance for your body that it can cause breakthrough bleeding or even put off your period...
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