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March 16th, 2007, 04:11 PM
Join Date: Mar 2007
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Ok, well its been 21 days since me and my boyfriend started having sex. I posted on here like a week ago askin for peoples advice, and here I am again. I've made him go the last 5 days without sex, since he told me that he'd rather go without sex than wear a condom. Well a couple days ago I got really dizzy and passed out, and I do have low blood pressure, so its happened before when I dont eat. But I've been eating regularly, so I know its not that. My mom told me that through both of her pregnancy's she'd pass out because of her blood pressure bottoming out. Also, my sister made my favorite meal the other nite, and afterword I got sick and almost threw up. That's NEVER happened before. And I've been alot more tired recently, like I can't get enough sleep. My stomach's always feelin upset and "fluttery", I guess is the word. I just dont know what's up with my body. Again, each time we've had sex he's only pulled out, we've only used a condom once, which I know is just as much my fault as his. And we've had sex at least 20 times, but its probably more than that. I took a pregnancy test yesterday morning, and it said negative, but I think it was too early because my period's not due for another week. So I would just like to know what you guys think of all this....I can't really approach my mom until I know I'm pregnant, it would break her heart. What is the chance of me being pregnant, with all this new stuff?
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March 16th, 2007, 04:18 PM
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Nova Scotia, Canada
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I think you need to talk to your mom. Whether you actually end up being pregnant or not, it sounds like you could really use her support and someone close to be able to talk to.

A test won't show up positive for at least a few more days. I've tested positive at 10dpo but that's not all that common. In the meantime you need to take care of yourself.

Also - go get yourself some prenatal vitamins just in case. They're not that expensive if you buy the generic brand. I'm guessing since you weren't protecting yourself you also weren't planning for the possibility that you would get pregnant. Your body needs the folic acid in particular. But get the kind that doesn't have added iron, unless your doctor tells you otherwise. They tend to cause an upset stomach.

And umm... as for your boyfriend? I'm really concerned that he doesn't seem to care enough to use a condom. There's more at stake than pregnancy, and you're putting yourself at some serious health risks by having sex with him (and by association, having sex with everyone he's ever had sex with and everyone they ever have...). You guys need to have a serious chat.

Good luck
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March 16th, 2007, 05:14 PM
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The first 3 weeks I was pregnant (and didn't know I was pregnant) I can honestly say I didn't feel any differently.

It could be something else severely wrong with you and you need to have your mom take you to the doctor.

In my opinion, if you're being pregnant would break your mother's heart, maybe you are too young for the responsibility of having sex. Just a thought. Even the most careful people can get pregnant. Most of us on this board got pregnant using condoms. You really need to be on some sort of birth control if you are sexually active.
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March 17th, 2007, 05:42 AM
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you may be pregnant, but I'm saying that because you had unprotected sex so many times. The things wrong with your body may be a more serious thing, could be pregnancy, or your body could be manifesting sympthoms because you know the strong possibility that you are pregnant.

i Know its too late for the protection lecture if you are pregnant, but i would seriously consider the integrity of your boyfriend. do you really think you could have a baby with a man that would disrespect your body by not wearing a condom to protect it?

theres nothing to be ashamed about an unplanned pregnancy, everyone who posts here was in the same position as you at one stage.
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