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September 30th, 2007, 11:47 PM
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I told my fiance that I am again pregnant. I told him when he picked me up yesterday that I had something to talk to him about and he came in at 2 in the morning because I accidentally feel asleep and asked me what I had to talk about and I told him I was pregnant. He thought I was dreaming so this morning when we got up I told him I would take another test in front of him and I did, it was positive and he didn't say a word.

We were dtd and he stopped and asked me what was wrong and I told him he hasn't said anything about the this pregnancy and he just said that we will have to do what we can to take care of our family because that's all we can do, all we can. He even played with stomach and let me sleep for three hours while he watched both boys, ran around getting me everything I needed, and all that. I stressed that he had to be involved as he only went to one doc appt with our son and that was to find out it was a boy.

He of course wants me to move with him and I know that that is best but I told him I would wait until after I hit 12 weeks but that I need to get to the doc ASAP, so I am going to make a appt tomorrow.

My mom found one of the tests and asked me if I was and I said no. I have no idea why I am a grown woman but I know if I tell her she is gonna call his mom and I want him to tell her and I want to tell mine on the same day.

Thank you all for your support on the other thread. I am going to make this work somehow so be prepared for a lot of questions!
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October 1st, 2007, 10:17 AM
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Well good luck. When do you see the doctor?

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October 1st, 2007, 06:57 PM
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seems like he's taking it really well.. and I'm glad he's helping you out..

and I don't blame you for not telling your mom.. for some reason that's one of the hardest things to do. And in your case.. her running to tell his mom sounds like no fun..

Good luck in the next few weeks.. I'm sure they'll be some of the toughest.

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October 1st, 2007, 08:40 PM
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yeah seems like he is taking it well =) HUGS
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October 1st, 2007, 10:37 PM
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Aw, congrats. You make some cute babies.
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October 2nd, 2007, 02:50 AM
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Wow. Good luck!
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October 2nd, 2007, 12:12 PM
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I am going to Birthright tomorrow and they will give me a referral to a doctor, I am going to apply for state help October 12th of this month! SO Hopefully I will have everything done by then.

I am giving myself to the end of this week to tell my mom. I don't think she will be upset because she keeps hounding me about having a girl, I just don't think she wanted me to have one this soon. With losing a baby only months ago.
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October 2nd, 2007, 02:06 PM
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Stephanie, I was just lurking around and happened to see this post. Stay strong.. You can make it, God dosn't give us what we can't handle. If you ever need anything feel free to PM me anytime.
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October 3rd, 2007, 04:12 AM
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Thanks to all the girls who are supporting me from the Teen Mommy board! It's nice to know I am still cared about! I will be back soon!
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Good luck w/ everything hun!
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