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March 14th, 2012, 07:39 PM
kateb10's Avatar Expecting #2!!!
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The night that I think I might be MOST fertile of this cycle, hubbie has a migraine. He doesn't know that I might be Oing because he doesn't like to know that info, so I can't exactly tell him. I am so disappointed and tired, and just sad. I wish I knew how to handle this feeling; he ALWAYS wants to do it. And the ONE night. Ugh. Miserable.


Wife to Stu, Mommy to English Jane (15 months), remembering sweet babe lost Feb. 24 at 8 weeks

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March 15th, 2012, 04:20 AM
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You have been BDing previous nights right!? And if you do it tonight you still should have your basis covered hun. Some doctors even recommend it every other night instead so your still in the game. Try not to stress if it doesn't happen one night. I know that I used to do that and then take it out on DH without even realizing it.

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March 15th, 2012, 07:07 AM
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I know how you feel. I get super stressed if that happens too. But, Katie is right. If you've been DTD regularly and do it today, then your bases should be well covered. I peeked at your chart and it definitely looks like today is O day for you. If you're able to get a round in today, you should be golden. Good luck!!
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March 15th, 2012, 01:28 PM
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I hope you can still catch the egg!

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March 15th, 2012, 01:46 PM
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I agree, when I have gotten pregnant it wasn't on the day of "o'ing", but rather around it. My doc is one of those docs that recommends every other night for DTD - it allows the swimmers time to recoup

I hope you catch that eggie!!
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