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November 16th, 2012, 01:40 PM
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Hello ladies. I'm wondering if I may join you? I suffered a loss in September of this year. I have a 17 month old son, and this was to be our second child. We began TTC this summer, and much to our surprise, we were able to conceive on our first try. I had all the symptoms of my first pregnancy, and things were going "well", or so I thought, until I started spotting around 10.5 weeks. I knew something was wrong, as I never had a touch of spotting with my son. I had my 11-wk appt. with my midwife, and was diagnosed with a blighted ovum. We were and still are devastated. I'm tired of hearing that, "it wasn't a real baby". Although maybe easier than a late-term loss, or seeing an 11-wk old fetus on the monitor, after having been pregnant for 11 weeks and planning and longing for our new little one's arrival, it was no less haunting for me to see an empty sac. I was fortunate to miscarry naturally, and I "believe" my cycles are back on track. I've had what I believe to be my first real cycle-post miscarriage, and I'm fairly certain I ovulated. We BD during that time, so I'm hoping and praying for a rainbow baby in the near future. I'm currently 7 DPO. I hope there's room for me in your group, and I look forward to getting to know each of you.
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November 17th, 2012, 06:23 AM
Ame C's Avatar Every breath is a gift.
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Sorry for your loss xxx hugs!
I am also new here. It's heartbreaking to lose a child. We are all here for support and to uplift one another. Welcome and best of luck to you.
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November 17th, 2012, 09:06 AM
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I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss. You came to the right place. I hope you are blessed with your rainbow baby very soon
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November 17th, 2012, 04:19 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. No matter if it was a blighted ovum or a chemical or a second tri loss it still hurts. Good luck when you test!
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November 26th, 2012, 11:38 AM
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Thank you for welcoming me! It feels good to have found a group of women that know exactly what I'm going through.
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November 27th, 2012, 09:35 AM
*Leah*'s Avatar TTC the newfashioned way
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You WERE pg and it is just as hard of a loss as any other. I had a b/o in May. My due date is 12/12 and I'm having a hard time with it. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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