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December 1st, 2012, 08:14 PM
Ame C's Avatar Every breath is a gift.
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How long did you wait/are you waiting to ttcal?

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December 2nd, 2012, 12:57 AM
Happy Song's Avatar Nicole
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I am so sorry for your loss. My son was still born in September. I joined TTCAL when i got my first period. I am sort of NTNP because i *should* wait a little bit. initially my doctor said one cycle, but on my follow up even though everything was perfect he made it clear he'd much rather see me later than earlier. So even though having two cycles/AF has been hard, I know it is better for my body and my next baby.
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December 2nd, 2012, 04:40 AM
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I had a very early loss (started bleeding three days after my BFP), so it wasn't as necessary for us to wait. This cycle we were NTNP and I may or may not have ovulated, but next cycle we will be back to active TTC with MA.

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December 2nd, 2012, 06:18 AM
sweety_pie's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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So sorry for your loss!

After my first loss at 12 weeks we waited only one cycle to try again, then we got pregnant and lost that one too at 7 weeks. This time my doc wants us to wait 6 months before trying again.

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December 2nd, 2012, 10:09 AM
Ame C's Avatar Every breath is a gift.
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DH and I both wanted to hop back on the saddle and start trying again right away BUT then I came to my senses and decided it would be best for us to wait a minimum of 6 months. I think in my situation it's the logical thing to do.
Unfortunately patience is not one of my virtues

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December 2nd, 2012, 12:23 PM
lil_fishy's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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We are waiting 1 cycle

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December 2nd, 2012, 02:46 PM
BeachMum's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I'm SO sorry for your loss We are ttc right away, my loss was at 7.1 weeks and I seem to be gearing up to o right now (I have had 2 days of peak on my monitor) so we're not preventing at all. I have severe endometriosis and the more periods I get, the harder it's going to be again. My doc didn't say whether it was ok or not, however we got pregnant with #3 on the 2nd cycle of our 3rd miscarriage.

I hope and pray that when you do ttc again, that you conceive easily and receive your precious rainbow baby.
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December 3rd, 2012, 01:40 PM
seri0uslyc0nfused's Avatar Just Confused....
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I lost my twins at 12 weeks and my dr wants us to wait 3-6 months. I'm on month 2 and I'm going crazy, but I'm trying my best to stick to the AT LEAST 3 month plan. My cycles are almost 40 days now so one month feels like a year.

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December 3rd, 2012, 02:00 PM
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It took me 6 weeks for my beta to go down to 0 after my natural m/c at 6 wks, found out at 9w. We started trying again immediately, being, it took us so long to get pg.

I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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