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December 3rd, 2012, 08:52 AM
lelila's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I feel like every cycle I'm out, sometimes even before the cycle starts.

This cycle was a bust because of the holiday, we had so many people staying over, DH and I couldn't BD before or during ovulation.

But I already feel like I'm out for next cycle and it's not even CD1 yet. It just seems like there is always SOMETHING to prevent us from having a chance.

Misery Loves Company. Who else is feeling negative these days?

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December 3rd, 2012, 09:04 AM
Cait&AngelAbove's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I definately do. It will be three years trying in February with lone 7w loss and a chemical pg. My little sister is pg with a random guy's kid and my SIL is pg... again. I feel like it is never going to be my turn. I feel like the family doesn't care how I feel anymore. I am struggling a lot right now. This is usually my favorite time of the year but right now everything feels like a reminder.

Thank you so much Bokkechick for the perfect siggie!!!
12-10-10 2-6-12
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December 3rd, 2012, 09:47 AM
lelila's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry for your heartache. It makes it even harder when you see relatives get pg easily or by accident.

Fortunately, we never told anyone we wanted more children. We endure comments like "they missed their window" "They're too old, it's too risky now" or "I guess they're just a one baby family" and keep our losses to ourselves, as painful as it is. Nothing they say could make us feel better anyway.

Try to put TTC out of your mind for the holidays, and enjoy the beauty and peace of the season.

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December 3rd, 2012, 01:54 PM
amyhk's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I've felt like that. Sometimes I think it's taken so long because our timing is just crappy. DH travels a lot for work, and both he and I have gotten sick at the most inopportune times. As it is, this is my O week and I'm sitting here coughing and all stuffed up. We're still determined this cycle, though, even though I'm more realistic now. It takes a lot of stars to line up properly.
Amy, mommy to Eli Michael, June 14 2009

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December 3rd, 2012, 02:51 PM
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Oh yes! And this cycle I got O pains (which I never get) and CM looks like the right consistency and then BAM he gets the flu on CD13 and 14...although we DTD everyday since AF left leading up to that so hopefully a few stuck around and caught that egg!

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December 3rd, 2012, 04:59 PM
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I've felt that way for years (and still do). December 15th will be 4 years since my first loss with Noah and my husband and I have no living children. Everyone in my life keeps ending up pregnant which is just another kick in the face.

My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11

Expecting my baby boy May 9th
Emergency cerclage put in 12/24

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