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Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss


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February 13th, 2013, 02:27 PM
Redneck_Mommy's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Hi everyone. I haven't been very active here, I guess I just don't know if this is where I belong. I understand we have all suffered losses and hope to have our beautiful babies in our arms soon. I personally am waiting for my cycle at the end of May/beginning of June.

I am having a really tough time reading BFP and pregnancy mentioned posts. I do know that's what we are here for and hoping for. But, it makes me cry every time I try... And I'm not a cryer. So, I just wanted to explain that I don't read those posts anymore and therefore don't reply in them. So here, I will collectively congratulate each of you that has a + right now. And, I will ask that you not be offended that I don't post in those particular threads. I'm not trying to be rude, or ugly. I'm trying to not continually hurt.

Anyway, I was feeling guilty, and felt the need to explain.

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February 13th, 2013, 02:59 PM
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oh Gale, no explanation needed...absolutely everyone here has been there at one point (or some of us multiple times). One of the reasons we ask people to put *preg mentioned* in post title is so that those who want to avoid the post can easily - but no apologies or explanations when you feel like you need to skip the happy news posts are ever needed.

I'm sorry you're having such a tough time right now, if you want to lean on us and vent, definitely do ((((HUGS))))
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February 13th, 2013, 08:55 PM
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Please don't feel bad! I would never be offended by something like this.
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February 13th, 2013, 08:56 PM
JulieMc's Avatar Loving my babies. :)
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I totally understand. I often don't read or post in those threads, unless I'm having a good day.
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February 14th, 2013, 07:52 AM
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I completely agree with all the other ladies - no explanation needed!! I often skip those posts when I am having a rough day. So sorry you are having a hard time right now and feel free to come here to vent about it anytime. We will be here for you!!!

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February 14th, 2013, 08:07 AM
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Do not feel guilty!!! That is one of the reasons we ask ladies to put something in the title of their pg/baby posts. I also do not read them on bad days. All of us understand.
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February 14th, 2013, 09:12 AM
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I hope you start feeling better ((hugs)) We all have our bad days, we just have to take it one step at a time.
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February 14th, 2013, 12:42 PM
lil_fishy's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Don't feel bad. I tend to lurk more than post. I'm also feeling like I'm not sure where I belong. I'm not good at ttc and I'm always saying the wrong thing when I'm trying to be supportive and generally ... I'm a mess. I don't read all the posts and what I want to read changes day to day. Do what you need to heal yourself. The ladies in this group are incredibly understanding and know that we all need time or breaks.

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