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July 17th, 2013, 03:46 PM
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So it seems the royal baby is almost here... Every day I watch news about it on tv...
I have to confess I feel very sad when I hear stuff about it (of course I wouldn't dare to say that out loud to anyone, but I know you girls will probably understand me).
Last year when I was pregnant (very pregnant), they were still trying! And now here I am, with lots of pictures, a beautiful nursery, a closet with clothes up to 2 years, and no baby!
What hurts me the most is to know that what happened to my baby would NEVER happen to Will and Kate's. Their baby will get the very best care possible.
Mine was born in the private hospital I used do work at (yes I was a pediatrician), every one was supposed to take extra special care of him, but still... they didn't save him when they could have! They let my son die with air outside his lungs, without being able to ventilate properly, and right at that moment, they killed me!

I'm sorry to just spill all of this here, but I really cannot talk to anyone else about this... I think Will and Kate make a very cute couple and wish them and their baby all the best, it's just... I don't know. Guess life is unfair in many many ways.

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July 17th, 2013, 03:52 PM
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(((Hugs))) I am so sorry that happened. I don't watch the news or anything like that.
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July 17th, 2013, 03:53 PM
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I am so sorry you are hurting so badly, I really have nothing else to offer, except that I can sort of understand where you are coming from. I have a friend that found out they were expecting around the time we found out we lost our baby, and they didnt even want it. i mean they do now, but her reaction was total freaking out, saying we dont want another baby yet. and now they are getting one, and we have to ttc again... I am not upset at them, but at the same time, it doesnt seem fair.
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July 17th, 2013, 04:05 PM
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I have had to avoid friends, news, and even some family. You have to do what is best for you sometimes. Take care of yourself hun. We are here for you anytime so vent away!!

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July 17th, 2013, 04:09 PM
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What a beautiful baby boy. I'm so sorry you are hurting right now. How very tragic, what you've had to deal with. Special thoughts and prayers for you.
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July 17th, 2013, 06:11 PM
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Soso so sorry - and what a handsome boy. I can't imagine... and wish I had a magic wand and could take away your pain.
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July 17th, 2013, 07:21 PM
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Your boy is so beautiful. I'm so sorry you lost him.

Vent any time, Hon. (((Hugs))) to you.
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July 18th, 2013, 05:04 AM
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Thanks, all of you.. I never thought I could feel so welcome and understood...
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July 18th, 2013, 08:17 AM
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Your post reminds us all that life is precious, rare, special and fleeting. And no one has any guarantees. Thank you for reminding us to hold on to what we have with an iron grip and appreciate what we do have, because it could be snatched away from us without warning.

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July 18th, 2013, 10:39 AM
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That was beautiful lelila... thank you for your words. It really seems none of us is or will ever be "safe". Oh how I miss those innocent, oblivious days!
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July 18th, 2013, 11:06 AM
MoonAngel702's Avatar ~Staying Positive~
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He is the most beautiful little boy ever. I am SO sorry. My heart is just breaking for you! I can't even believe that happened and could never imagine.

Never feel bad for any emotions or feelings that you have. Most of us have experienced feelings just like that at one time or another. It is completely normal to feel that way after something so unimaginable happens.
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