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August 19th, 2013, 04:12 PM
Mega Super Mommy
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My name is Ally and I am 36 yrs old. My husband and I have been together for over 20 yrs and have a 10 DD, 9 DD, and a 2 1/2 yr old DS. We also have 4 angels in Heaven; 9/02, 1/08, 11/08,and the last one last Tuesday 8/12 due to a blighted ovum. This last pregnancy was not at all planned but was a complete miracle since we did it without ANY intervention. That surprise/gift pregnancy has lit a fire in me and I want to TTC another child.
I am presently bleeding furiously and hope to see an end in sight to that this week. We chose to do a natural m/c because we heard it would allow us to start trying again much sooner.
Has anyone had a blighted ovum and went onto successful conceive another child soon afterwards? My OB would like to see us wait 3 cycles but my heart is not into waiting. I say jump right back on the horse while the ride is still going.
I am looking forward to getting to know you all, I miss my March duedate club terribly and am looking for some online friends.

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August 19th, 2013, 05:35 PM
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Welcome to you- I'm so sorry for your losses, and hope you can find the support and comfort you need.

My most recent loss was a blighted ovum. I have to tell you, they can be difficult to pass. I bled for a total of 9 weeks (including 2 uses of misoprostol) and had to have the sac ruptured with an endometrial biopsy before it was over. I don't want to freak you out! I hope this passes quickly and you can move on to TTC again.
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August 19th, 2013, 09:25 PM
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I'm very sorry that we have "met" under these circumstances, but it is nice to meet you. Hopefully soon you will have your rainbow baby!!

Sadie (30) breastfeeding, babywearing, cosleeping mama to
(5), Wren
Phoenix (2), Fox
and due with our rainbow 6/2/18 or 6/4, depends who you ask
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August 20th, 2013, 04:39 AM
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I am so sorry your going through this! I have not had a blighted ovum so I have no experience for that. I hope you conceive quickly with your rainbow baby. We are all here for you!

My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11

Expecting my baby boy May 9th
Emergency cerclage put in 12/24

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August 20th, 2013, 07:27 AM
Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry for your losses but welcome to the group!
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August 20th, 2013, 01:46 PM
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I am so sorry to have met you under these circumstances. UNfortunately I don't have any experience with this. I am sorry for your loss and you will be in my prayers
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August 20th, 2013, 05:09 PM
Join Date: Apr 2013
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Sorry to hear about your losses. I don't have any experience with a blighted ovum, but if you are feeling up to trying again right away, I say go for it. I hope you get a rainbow baby soon. It is a great group of ladies on this forum.
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