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September 17th, 2013, 01:57 PM
Knewton's Avatar Super Mommy
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My husband and I have been married for 7 months almost on the dot... yesterday was exactly 7 months. Anyways out of those 7 months guess how many times we have been able to be together while im o'ing? TWICE. Yep twice. He finally got a job back home in July ...we were able to TTC. Then in August I was sent out of town which wasn't a big deal but b/c it's only one month. This month everything is going fine he is working in town and BAM he gets sent out. When you ask? Yesterday. When do I O ... probably tomorrow. Have no idea if he is coming home tonight ... might now tell tomorrow which mean we once again missed another month. I want to SCREAM at the top of my lungs!!! Is God trying to say something.. is the enemy doing this? All I would like is for us to have 2 uninterrupted weeks during the right time to be together.. take him when I am due for my period but NOT the 4 days you can get pregnant. But nope, timing always matches with that.
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September 17th, 2013, 05:05 PM
jmills1129's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Time will be on your side soon my friend, i know it is frustrating but keep trekking, i am hoping next month is yours, if your hubby doesnt make it home in time for this month. keep your head up, your time is soon

9w4d, June, 16 2013
Missing My Angel baby
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September 17th, 2013, 05:50 PM
Just keep breathing.
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Hang in there! Or better yet, go ahead and scream! It sounds like he has such a stressful, unpredictable job, and that's got to be so rough on you both.
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September 17th, 2013, 05:59 PM
Rainbow Catcher's Avatar Bound and Determined
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Location: Virginia
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aww im sorry did you dtd before he left?? The couple days before are good times too!
Forever missing our angel, 6/7/13.

10/19/14 - DE IVF, Transferred two 8-cell embies (3dt)
10/28/14 - 1st Beta = 70 at 9dp3dt
10/30/14 - 2nd Beta = 163 at 11dp3dt
11/5/14 - 3rd Beta = 1300 at 17dp3dt
11/17/14 - U/S - Twins, both with flickers of heartbeats!
11/25/14 - One twin stopped growing and lost their hb. :'( The other measures perfectly, hb: 157.
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September 18th, 2013, 05:27 AM
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Location: Pennsylvania
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I know that has to be extremely frustrating! Did you BD before he left? If so if you O within the next day or so you still have a chance dear! Try to stay positive... dreams do come true

My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11

Expecting my baby boy May 9th
Emergency cerclage put in 12/24

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September 18th, 2013, 10:13 AM
momology's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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That is so frustrating!!!!!!!!!!!! I am sorry I hope you were able to BD at least once before he had to go so you have a chance.

Cautiously expecting Seamonkey #2 Due Oct 4th

Missing our angels:
Molar pregnancy loss (12 weeks) - 1/2013
Missed Miscarriage (10 weeks) - 6/2013
Early Miscarriage (5 weeks) - 12/2016

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