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January 6th, 2014, 08:08 PM
Super Mommy
Join Date: Oct 2013
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Let's see what we have today....

1 pregnancy announcement
2 pregnant belly pictures
1 status about getting baby's room ready
3 new pictures of little ones under a year old.

I'm sure I'm missing a few in there.

It's like poking a wound with a stick.
I don't know why I do it to myself.
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January 6th, 2014, 08:19 PM
Rainbow Catcher's Avatar Bound and Determined
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Location: Virginia
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I hear ya!!!!! Ugh it can really sting
Forever missing our angel, 6/7/13.

10/19/14 - DE IVF, Transferred two 8-cell embies (3dt)
10/28/14 - 1st Beta = 70 at 9dp3dt
10/30/14 - 2nd Beta = 163 at 11dp3dt
11/5/14 - 3rd Beta = 1300 at 17dp3dt
11/17/14 - U/S - Twins, both with flickers of heartbeats!
11/25/14 - One twin stopped growing and lost their hb. :'( The other measures perfectly, hb: 157.
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January 6th, 2014, 08:23 PM
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I swear it seemed like no one was having babies before, and now EVERYONE is!! The further the due dates being announced get past my original due date (the closer my first angel's due date gets), I feel like the more it hurts!
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January 7th, 2014, 06:22 AM
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If you hover over that person's status you can hide it so you don't see them anymore Your still friends with them and they have no clue that you do it but it helped me during my dark times. It's still very raw and it's okay to feel like that hun.

My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11

Expecting my baby boy May 9th
Emergency cerclage put in 12/24

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January 7th, 2014, 08:05 AM
Danielle80's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I do what Katie does. It helps me to not see every little milestone. I just can't see pregnant women and not feel sad and upset that it's not me. They really have no idea if you hide their posts from your newsfeed and you can check on them if you want to, you just go to their FB page. I am sorry you have to deal with so many pregnant women. It really is hard and heartbreaking to want to much to be pregnant too but have to endure the updates and pictures.
Danielle: Mom to Caitlyn (16), Brooklynn (12), Jackson (8), Lincoln (5), & Baby Harrison

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January 7th, 2014, 11:34 AM
Super Mommy
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Thanks ladies, I think I'll have to try that! :/
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January 7th, 2014, 12:32 PM
Mega Super Mommy
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When I was going through my losses I had several friends whose feeds I had to unsubscribe from... I couldn't bear to see all their updates about their pregnancies... I love that feature of facebook. That way you can not see without having to unfriend anyone.d

Hugs though... it really sucks!
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January 7th, 2014, 12:36 PM
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Sometimes I hate FB too. Especially when someone is pregnant and complains about every little thing, or has a newborn and constantly complains, or talks about an unplanned pregnancy they didn't really want...drives me insane. What I wouldn't give to be pregnant/sleep deprived from a newborn, etc!
Mommy to 3 Super Heroes and a little princess

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January 7th, 2014, 02:00 PM
butterfly721's Avatar Mommy-to-be to a baby boy
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I'm sorry. I know that this is hard. Sometimes I avoid FB for this very reason.

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January 7th, 2014, 04:12 PM
Super Mommy
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Location: Michigan
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Yes, the complaining really gets to me, too. But in my heart I know they truly just don't understand and probably will never appreciate how lucky they are to have their little ones like we will. I'm sure they do, but not in the same way. I know I didn't think the same way as I do now.
I really do need to stay off Facebook and probably hide some feeds for some particular people...but it's so darn hard!
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January 7th, 2014, 05:08 PM
The Purple Butterfly's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Yeah, I was in a DDC, so many are on my Fb and i see a ton of baby pics every day. A bunch of my friends just recently had babies, too. It's sad for me.
Stacey, wife to Allan & mom to:

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January 7th, 2014, 06:29 PM
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I'm sorry ((hugs))

Heidi, mama to 5 kiddos and an lost 11.25.13 at 11w5d
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January 7th, 2014, 07:02 PM
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Stacey, I am so sorry. Watching other people be happy and healthy and clueless as to what it feels like to have that ripped away is truly one of the hardest parts of all of this, I think. It's the one thing you want so badly and would do anything for, and there's reminders surrounding you every day. It sucks.

Heidi, thank yooouu <3 ((hugs)) I'm sure we've all felt it
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