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January 14th, 2014, 06:18 AM
socialworkmom2be's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Hey ladies,

I posted this in pregnancy and motherhood after loss but figured many ladies here would be able to relate.

So yesterday I just wasn't feeling right and couldn't place my finger on why that was. My nipples weren't really sensitive and my other symptoms stopped and although I was been fine with not testing something told me to. I got a faint line with a 3 hr hold at 4w5d (5w per DPO) and when I was checking CP there was pink tinged cm... I checked again about 10 mins later and it was dRk brown then it stopped. My CP was very low and felt link the opening was no longer fully closed.

I'm so at a loss right now. Why is this happening to me? I was told the first one was a fluke, but I did EVDRYTHING right this time around, why is it happening AGAIN?! I'm petrified and I honestly am so scared to try again in fear of another let down.

Has anyone had the same experience? Did anyone go on to have a third pregnancy that was successful without intervention... What about with intervention?

Thanks for your help ladies, I'm feeling really crushed right now.
8/13, 1/14, 2/14, 8/15, 10/15 - mommy to angels!

After 5 early losses we are cautiously expecting our second miracle!

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January 14th, 2014, 07:05 AM
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I am so sorry your going through this... did you call the doctor to be seen? You really should be checked (HCG levels as well as ultrasound). Some people have spotting/bleeding during pregnancy as well as symptoms that come and go. Another thing the doctor should check is your progesterone levels. It's very frustrating but most times there is nothing you can do to prevent the m/c. I think your first step is seeing the doctor. Please keep us posted.

My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11

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January 14th, 2014, 07:18 AM
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yes, i would call the dr asap! and def have your levels checked. so sorry youre going through this!!!

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January 14th, 2014, 07:54 AM
Danielle80's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Many prayers. Like the girls said. Call the dr. If for nothing else but to make sure YOU are ok. Also to document the mc's. Sometimes you need to show a pattern to get the help and testing. I understand about the fears and the worry. I have to tell myself that sometimes things really are just a fluke but you should have some tests just to make sure. Again lots of prayers and hugs!!!
Danielle: Mom to Caitlyn (16), Brooklynn (12), Jackson (8), Lincoln (5), & Baby Harrison

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January 14th, 2014, 07:54 AM
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I hope everything is ok
Forever missing our angel, 6/7/13.

10/19/14 - DE IVF, Transferred two 8-cell embies (3dt)
10/28/14 - 1st Beta = 70 at 9dp3dt
10/30/14 - 2nd Beta = 163 at 11dp3dt
11/5/14 - 3rd Beta = 1300 at 17dp3dt
11/17/14 - U/S - Twins, both with flickers of heartbeats!
11/25/14 - One twin stopped growing and lost their hb. :'( The other measures perfectly, hb: 157.
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January 14th, 2014, 07:56 AM
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I'm so sorry, and I completely agree with everyone's advice

Heidi, mama to 5 kiddos and an lost 11.25.13 at 11w5d
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January 14th, 2014, 08:23 AM
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I am very sorry that you are going through this. Huge HUGS! I would definately call your doctor. There are many things that they need to look into. We lost our first son at 19 weeks and went on to have a beautiful little boy a year later. Just recently we had a second loss, much earlier this time. I actually know many women who have had multiple loss and have gone on to have a healthy baby. Please take care of yourself and do not loose all hope. I know it is hard. More HUGS!
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