Log In Sign Up

New here

Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss


Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to [email protected].

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Trying to Conceive after Loss LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
June 13th, 2017, 12:00 PM
Jacks_mama's Avatar Regular
Join Date: Apr 2017
Location: Baltimore
Posts: 65
Hi all,

Not sure how active this board is but figured I'd make an introduction and lurk for bit until we're ready to ttc. I'm 33, my partner and I have a 3yr old son and we were trying for our second. I got pregnant after 3 months of trying and it ended in a miscarriage last wednesday at 6 weeks.

He's ready to try again whenever I'm ready and healed but it's so hard. We dtd last night for the first time in weeks (we hadn't done it since finding out I was pregnant) and I cried afterwards because it's so mentally hard. Miscarriage isn't fair, I don't care how common or natural it is.

Thinking about waiting until everything is healed and trying again next cycle. I only bled for 6 days and when I went to the er, my numbers were 167, so my guess is the pregnancy stopped developing a week or so prior. We'll see how it goes.

Reply With Quote
June 13th, 2017, 02:20 PM
Boss Mama
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Toronto, Canada
Posts: 8,251
I'm sorry for you loss. Miscarriages are hard but i find comfort in knowing God makes no mistakes and everything happens for a reason. I know that won't help right now but over time it does get easier.r
BFP #1 - Baby boy born May 10 1998
BFP #2 - Baby Girl born March 22 2002
BFP #3 - Baby girl born September 18 2009
We started trying for our last child in September 2011 and it has been a rollercoaster
BFP #4 Baby girl Lauren born sleeping at 18 weeks July 5 2012 (PPROM) no answers why
BFP #5 - D&C Feb 11 2013 (heart Stopped at 13 weeks)
BFP #6 - Miscarriage at 8 weeks Nov 28 2014
BFP #7 - Baby girl Kimiah Genesis born sleeping at 23 weeks June 28 2016 (PPROM and PtL) found out after autopsy i had an infection and need to go on antibiotic therapy if i get pregnant

My Ovulation Chart

Some days i feel to just give up but a part of me can't let go of the thought of hopefully one day God blessing us again!!!!

Last edited by Diamond2009; June 20th, 2017 at 06:04 PM.
Reply With Quote
June 18th, 2017, 07:34 PM
Libby22's Avatar Super Moderator
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Palmerston north, New Zealand
Posts: 9,093
I'm sorry hear about your loss hope you get ur rainbow baby fast. <3
Reply With Quote

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:17 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.9
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0