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December 28th, 2017, 01:27 PM
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so many are pregnant after my loss
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December 28th, 2017, 05:32 PM
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so many are pregnant after my loss


Honestly... I tell them I'm so happy for them with a smile on my face and then I go home and cry into the baby onsie I gave my husband to tell him about our first pregnancy that I lost.
I dont handle it well. I am happy for them but its not fair and it sucks. But thats life for ya
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December 29th, 2017, 02:15 PM
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7 people on facebook are one said hers was a mistake
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January 5th, 2018, 10:12 PM
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It sucks. Its heartbreaking. Why can someone who doesnt want a baby have one so easily and the ones who do want a ababy cant? Its not fair. But all we can do is put on a happy face and cry later. Thank God I have my husband to cry on his shoulder. Its something I never wouldve thought would happen to me
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January 11th, 2018, 12:46 PM
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We have to learn that life is unfair. Not everything that we want we do get. You will realize that some people do not want kids. But they are the ones who get pregnant more often. Then they end up aborting. I do feel the pain. It hurts just like any other pain. But I always like to encourage people. That a loss should tend to make you stronger. I have not been through a loss. but I have tried for more than 3 years to conceive. But then Bio tex clinic helped me out. It was such a painful episode. Especially when you see others have their own babies. Those who even got married after you. You feel like crying a river. but at the end of the day it will not help you in any way. All you can do is strengthen up and move on. Crying over split milk will never be the solution.
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January 12th, 2018, 03:49 PM
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