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March 15th, 2012, 06:50 PM
lyndileigh's Avatar Regular
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Location: Dacula, GA
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So, me & the hubby have been round & round about this whole birthcontrol thing. I've tried the pill, the ring, the i.u.d, condoms & just straight up no sex lol. <---yeah like that is really gonna happen. We already have three wonderful little girls who are 3, 2 & 8 months old. I should've just went ahead with getting a tubal since I've had all c-sections, but my hubby said he would get snipped so I didn't bother. Well.... now he has decided he doesn't really want to lose his "manhood" which is stupid. So we are just going on fate right now. This past weekend we used ZERO protection TWICE. Ekkk! And then it happened again last night.. Not sure how I feel about this. He says he doesn't really want anymore babies right now, and I'm not in a hurry for more either, but here we are. Even though we both know the consequences of our actions. I guess we are offically Not Trying, Not Preventing. We won't be upset if we get pregnant again thought. I think deep down we both want one more. We would welcome another blessing with open arms. So i guess we shall see what happens.

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March 21st, 2012, 04:28 AM
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March 22nd, 2012, 10:02 AM
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I feel like as long as you will be happy with another baby, then go for it! I prefer this method myself. Birth control messes me up, condoms are a hassle and we WANT kids, so whenever we get them is fine with us. We have actually been leaving it up to fate for two years, and just found out last month we're having a baby in October! So you just never know how long it'll take
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