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October 5th, 2012, 01:35 PM
jkgreen's Avatar Awaiting Our First Bundle
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I'm extrememly upset! My boobs have been killing me since September 23. Slight cramping.. only in the morning for the past week or so. All BFN.. and I'm so upset "F" doesn't mean Fat right now. I can deal if it is a no this month or a couple months until I get AF next. But seriously!!!!!! Why can't it just come and be done with! If I'm not pregnant, there is nothing to outweigh the weight I have been carrying in my bra. I want my boobs back! I want my mind back. If I don't get pregnant by December, we are taking a break. And Lord, I will welcome it. I have only be NTNP since June. I have no idea how you ladies do it a year or more at a time! I'm already going crazy!!!!!!!
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October 5th, 2012, 02:41 PM
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I'm the same, been waiting for AF for week and all tests bfn. Wish my AF would start so can start again next cycle. I feel for you. Th waiting sucks
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October 6th, 2012, 09:40 AM
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I feel for you. NTNP in September and got a positive on Wednesday.... followed by nothing but negatives. It's possible AF came early, or it was IB. No idea what's going on. I have symptoms I've never had. But I don't even know when or what at this point about anything... When I should expect my next cycle if I'm not, if a chemical is possible without bleeding, if I'm one of the rare false positives.... Limbo is a word we've used a lot this week. I can't even imagine the limbo, stress and frustration of those who chart and TTC 100%....

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October 6th, 2012, 11:25 AM
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*joins in the limbo boat* I agree with you guys. This waiting and not getting a BFP or AF is crazy... I've never just randomly skipped an entire month so this whole no positive and 3 days late thing is killing me.
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October 6th, 2012, 06:00 PM
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Breath, ladies, Breathe. I know you are unhappily frustrated right now and nothing i can say will take it away. However, here is a great big hug from me to you. I hope your week gets better! (OH! And I am on cd 36 after having a 631 day cycle so I really do get it. <3)

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October 6th, 2012, 06:35 PM
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I think my last cycle was like 80+ days so I can understand the wait. lol You might just be having TWW symptoms. I've had my breasts hurt a lot during my entire TWW. You get an estrogen surge around 7 DPO so the cramping could have started a week ago because your body is convinced there isn't a baby, but you still have that pesky luteal cyst.

I hope something happens soon to ease your mind. =)
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October 7th, 2012, 12:09 PM
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My LMP was 9th of June so i definitely know how you feel!
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