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October 18th, 2012, 07:08 AM
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Well Im a mum of four, my kids are 7,5,2 1/2 and 1 1/2. Me and dh arent trying.. he says no more.. i even say it.. but some part of me still thinks about pregnancy, birth, the new born stage.. i always think maybe in 5+ years maybe.. dh still says no... but honestly i will miss not having a baby at home with me.. im going to be lost.. i just feel at the moment in the future i will want another.. Apart of me is happy with 4 though because my kids are alot of work, worry..plus i lost 3ls of blood with 2 of my births.. so its risky.. i just dont know how to feel about it.

has anyone else ever felt the same way?
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October 29th, 2012, 10:08 AM
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I feel the same way. I have 3 kids 10,8, my youngest will be 4 next month. I feel like its now or never to have another but at the same time they are getting more independant... im so confused and i have no clue what to do! My husband is on the same page as me so we are both confused!! Most of my friends are done having kids so i will be the only one with a new born again. Im 35 so i really want to make up my mind soon!
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October 29th, 2012, 11:08 AM
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I am 37. My kids are 17, 14, Almost 5, 3 and almost 2. I am not looking forward to the time we will be done. If i could be a Duggar, I would
Not that I don't validate your feelings. I regretfully had a tubal ligation done after my daughter in 98, I was unsure at the time but felt pressured by my ex etc. I don't think the feeling for wanting a baby ever truly goes away, but I also think at some point the idea of not having one around outweighs the urge.
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October 30th, 2012, 07:41 AM
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I have one boy his 4 years old and my husband wants another baby and he like it to be a girl. I do want one too... but not now maybe 3 to 5 years. My hands are full with my one beloved son, we don't have help and I work at home. I love to have a baby girl but we are not financially ready, I'm not emotionally ready... or maybe I'm just afraid to experience again the worries whenever my kid got sick and end up on the hospital...
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