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November 29th, 2012, 04:46 PM
cypressmama's Avatar Super Mommy
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: TX
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Hi ladies,
I am curious what some of your ttc journeys have been.

This was our first cycle ttc and I could only get dh to dtd one time during my fertile window. I got emotional and decided we weren't gonna try anymore just ntnp but I still REALLY want a baby. I am stalking this site daily and every little twinge I keep hoping is a bfp... I even tested twice already though af isn't due till the 4th of december * i know I know

Have any of you been in this boat? I want to just chill and let nature take its course but because dh has a low drive and lots of stress *though REALLY wants a baby too* i feel like if I am not intentional with it it will take forever.

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December 2nd, 2012, 10:34 AM
Spyctre's Avatar Arwen
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I never got a woopsie baby. =) With my first, it was just taking FOREVER. So I decided that as soon as AF ended, we would be baby dancing every other day until my next period. If I couldn't get pregnant, might as well enjoy sex.

So we had BD until I finally found out I was pregnant--when I was 8 weeks along! lol I tested when I was 4 weeks and 6 weeks, and those two tests, Answer brands, were pure as the driven snow. I took the 3rd freebie test in the box at 8 weeks because I had weird cramping, and it was an incredibly dark BFP. Everyone kept telling me, "Wait two weeks and test again." I was sick for a month before I found out.

With my second, I actually did have a couple of "Oh, didn't think that would work..." surprises that ended in miscarriage. I then conceived 3 times between Nov 2010 and May 2011 by having sex one time on each of those cycles, just when I noticed fertile mucus.

My hubby wasn't too keen on a second child, but I had a tried and true method of getting him to rise for the occasion as it were: "Look, honey, BOOBIES!" (.)(.)

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