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November 14th, 2010, 03:02 PM
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You or DH? Did either of you still want more kids?

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November 14th, 2010, 05:08 PM
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Well, I was done at 4 and dh was game for #5, but was okay with being done. Then I changed my mind and we had #5, and I was DONE, and dh was too, had I changed my mind again he wouldn't have wanted to go for it.
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November 14th, 2010, 06:03 PM
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I was, then decided maybe 1 more, but after having 2 toddlers, I'm definitely done. DH never really cared how many we had.

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November 15th, 2010, 12:58 PM
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We were both done, we knew how many we wanted and we were satisfied. Neither of us wanted more.

~My thanks to *Kiliki* for the siggy and Lucy S for the blinkies~
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November 16th, 2010, 11:27 AM
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I am totally and completely done but DH isn't decided. I can sense that he wants one more but it isn't going to happen.

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November 24th, 2010, 07:07 PM
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Our OB suggested we not push our luck after our second loss this year. I am not happy with decision but DH is fine with it.
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November 26th, 2010, 09:09 PM
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Probably me. He always left the size of our family up to me, so when I decided I was done, he was fine with that.

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December 5th, 2010, 10:06 AM
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I think it was consensual. I think if we didn't live the military lifestyle we would have another one or two.

Thank you*kiliki* and Claire1979 for the gorgeous siggies!
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January 1st, 2011, 12:40 AM
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I was done after #5, but DH want more.
We done after this baby.
Gisela married with Michael, 7 childs - Michael 02.02.1984, Jessica 04.11 1992, Carmen 12.24.2004, Johanna 07.31.2007 , Alexander 09.15.2008
Christine 10.26.2009 and Ana Lena 05.07.2011

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January 1st, 2011, 06:05 AM
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When I regained consciousness after the emergency c/s, DH told me he was done after one and I agreed.

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January 4th, 2011, 11:07 AM
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We were both done but it was hard letting go of the option when i had my hyst. so i've had some sad feelings about it but DH ist totally fine
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January 15th, 2011, 07:41 PM
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January 16th, 2011, 01:06 AM
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he was done, the day i started having seizures, said no more, my life was more important, I however, am feeling incomplete, so i want to see what our options are to have one more
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Mommy to M(9), L(5),A(2) and D (5.6.12)

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March 31st, 2014, 05:51 AM
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I am completely done but my husband wants more
Gaby 12/01/2007, Alexander 08/02/2011, Johanna 07/24/2012
Nora: 03/02/2014

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May 12th, 2014, 12:54 PM
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I was done first. I was done the second the morning sickness hit. DF wants more. Bless his male heart...he says he would put up with me going through pregnancy all over again. I'm pretty finished though.
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August 12th, 2014, 08:20 AM
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We are both done now after having our 3! But I guess he was done before me, he was fine with 2 but let me go for number 3 anyways, we feel totally complete now!

{Aug/07/201212 weeks} {Oct/29th/20127 weeks}
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