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January 26th, 2011, 09:02 PM
kileechatseal's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Hi ladies! My name is Kiley, I am a mother of 3 wonderful children and my dh and I have decided that 3 is our final number. My oldest Gage is 8, my dd Peyton is 3 and my baby Brayson is 7 months. I am really struggling with the decision to not add anymore to our family but dh is 110% sure he is done. Is it common to second guess yourself when you commit to being done?

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January 27th, 2011, 09:11 AM
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yes it is completely normal to second guess yourself
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January 27th, 2011, 04:16 PM
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Welcome, and I agree... it's normal.

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Jake 13
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January 28th, 2011, 08:24 AM
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Glad it is normal. Part of me almost hopes for an oops later on down the road and another part of me just wants to enjoy the kids we have and once they are grown be able to enjoy time with just me and dh. My dh wants to get a vasectomy and I will not let him, I just cannot make a commitment like that. To be honest, if my dh came to me today and wanted to try for a 4th (which would never happen because he is 110% for sure he is done), I don't even know that I would. I am sooo confused!

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January 30th, 2011, 06:29 PM
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welcome! it is def normal to second guess yourself.
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February 17th, 2011, 07:24 AM
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Hi Kiley. I'm in the exact same boat as you. Glad to hear that others think that feeling is normal.
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March 2nd, 2011, 07:32 PM
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I second guess myself all the time. My husband got a vasectomy when my daughter was 1 week old. Of course at that point you don't want anymore! Now that my oldest is 5 and my youngest is 3, I am having a hard time being done. I don't have a choice anymore. Sometimes I hope that in a few years his vasectomy will fuse back together and we will have another one, but then again my kids will be older and I probably won't want to start over again! Btw, my sons name is Gage too.
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