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May 25th, 2007, 07:28 PM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: MN
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<span style="font-family:Georgia">Hi ladies. Im unsure if i should be posting here.
But part of me thinks im done having kids. ( We only have 1 and thats hollyann call me crazy!).
Im getting married 8.23.07. But im really unsure if i want more.
Part of me does but the other part is like oh god no. i really hated parts of pregnancy..like going to the doctor monthly,not being able to do things i can now, oh and my cramps were HORRIBLE! i thought forsure i was gunna die. i love the tummy and feeling the baby though. birth was not bad either just the rest really sucked as listed! .
Im 21(22 this year ) i know im young DH (soon to be) is 22 and will be 23 this year. I know he wants 3 kids. But he doesn't plan on having anymore untill like 2009 prolly. But i guess we will see. Im just wondering if anyone went through this?. I currently have a IUD. To make sure i dont get pg (it o.1 chance i'd get pg). But anyways i came to say hi also. we are unsure if we are done. but time will tell. </span>
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May 25th, 2007, 07:49 PM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: ohio
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my Dh had a vasectomy at 23. We were done after we had our first when we were 18 (me) and 20 (him). So I don't think your to young to make a permanent dessition. I would wait for anything permanent if you guys are unsure. But anyway WELCOME.

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May 26th, 2007, 02:01 PM
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I know some doctors won't do a vasectomy until a man is 30 or older. My ex tried after we got divorced and they wouldn't let him. I am sure he could have found a dr that would though.

I would give it a little time. I said I was done after Bryce. Then I got divorced and remarried and I desperately wanted a child with my current husband. Our family just wasn't complete till I did. I don't regret that decision. So give it some time...you are young and my change your mind!
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May 27th, 2007, 12:50 AM
Mega Super Mommy
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I will give it time! I change my mind often!
deep down im sure i'll have more.. but right now just the thought of it makes me sick. i forsure would not be happy to be PG right now. thank goodness i cant! lol
i know DH wants 3 kiddos..so time will tell..but i know he doesnt want another for awhile (Thank goodness)
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