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March 8th, 2006, 03:44 PM
Mom2DyJessAva's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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i would normally vent in the "unplanned pregnancy" but i feel like i should go here because alot of those girls are skinny and sometimes i feel out of place...(i still love chatting with them but not about this) well i wanted to start walking every day and my mom and my grandma said they would go with me..its like im so ready to walk and now they dont want to!..its like they walk one day then they quit!..i get pissed off because they say they dont wanna then they ask me why am i so mad! why the heck do u think im mad? no body cares about my weight even though they act like they do its all bullsh*t..i been thinking lately i should just go myself for now on..i hate being overweight and i hate my life because of this..im so ready for my little boy(which by the way his name is dylan ) to come out so i could just start losing weight again..

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March 8th, 2006, 05:23 PM
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I think it is hard for people who aren't overweight to understand what people who are overweight go through. I hope they start being more supportive.
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March 8th, 2006, 07:04 PM
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I'm sorry! That really sucks. I agree with you. You should just do it on your own. If they are overweight as well, then maybe when they see how healthy you are getting tey will join you! Also, think of how much good you will be doing your body and your baby. Just don't over do it!!!
Best wishes,
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March 17th, 2006, 01:46 AM
feohgoddess's Avatar Super Mommy
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aw hon dont rely on them then. i know its so hard. esp when you need that support. but just think that your baby right now is all the support group you really need and yes just like someone else said, if they are overweight, and they see you getting into great shape they're gonna want to join in too, and then they'll think "sheesh i should have never quit i could have made just as much progress as her by now" so hang in there and take it easy as well!!!!

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March 17th, 2006, 05:47 PM
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I totally get what you're saying....

This situation has happened to me often in my life..not just around the pregnancy....

I'll get motivated to lose weight or do some exercise and someone will say they'll do it with me and then all of a sudden after a few tries they back out...it sucks big time!

I say just try to stay motivated to do it yourself! You'll see after some time that you'll get in the habit and it won't bother you that they aren't coming along for the walk!

Melissa - Mommy to Jacob & Violet

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