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November 5th, 2012, 10:44 AM
IndyMommyWannabe's Avatar Always Hoping & Praying
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i got the call and all i can say is at least we have frozen embies to try in january with...(x-posted to TTCMA)

I can not even begin to tell you all how much this hurts right now.
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TTC since March 2010 (too darn long) - 4 years, 2 months and counting... / Severe MFI / Stage 1 Endometriosis

IVF=ONLY option

October 2012 = Fresh IVF #1 - retrieved 8, 6 fertilized. Transfer 2. Fail.March 2013 = Frozen #1 - Transfer 2 of 4 left. Fail.
February 2014 = Frozen #2 - Transfer remaining 2 - IMPLANTATION!
8 weeks, D&C - blighted ovum - Triploidy

July 2014 = Fresh IVF #2!

"Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us!"

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November 5th, 2012, 10:47 AM
Nicholle ttc's Avatar TTC our first!
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Oh No!

Oh my god, I'm so sorry for you! Oh, I wish I could give you a hug in real life. I know that I can't say anything to make this better. I'm tempted to pm you for you address, so that I can drive to Indy!

I'm so sorry Keri-Ann, my heart breaks for you. I can't imagine how you are feeling. Please pm me if you need anything!
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TTCing since August 2011
Me (33)-LP on the short side, but no other abnormalities
DH (37)-slightly subfertile morphology and motility

Natural cycles-August 2011-July 2012
August 2012-October 2012 clomid and progesterone
November 2012-IUI
December 2012, cysts from IUI, on bcp

January 2013-February 2013, long protocol IVF
15 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 7 fertilized with ICSI
All 7 made it to 5 day transfer, 2 were transferred
Only 1 frozen snowbaby
1st IVF

May 10, 2013, lap sx, Stage 1 endo

June 2013 - MA Round 2
Femara + hcg shot
IUI # 2

FET tentatively scheduled for 10/31/13

Have never seen a bfp.

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November 5th, 2012, 10:53 AM
Mega Super Mommy
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Nicholle, I'm so so sorry to see this Keri-Ann, i know nothing anyone says will help right now but we're all here for you

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November 5th, 2012, 11:19 AM
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Oh Keri-Ann.
I'm so very sorry to read this news.

BUT, you have frozen totsicles (as I like to call them), and you can try again!

In lieu of a real life , please accept this virtual , deep from my heart.

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November 5th, 2012, 11:19 AM
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Oh Hun....I'm so so sorry.

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November 5th, 2012, 12:01 PM
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Oh hun I'm so sorry!!!!!!!! This is totally not the news I expected to hear today!!
1798 Days to Conceive our Miracle!
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November 5th, 2012, 01:13 PM
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I'm so, so, sorry!!

for January!!
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Jessica, Raif, Penny and expecting #2!

Two years TTC with #1 followed by a surprise BFP, born Dec. 2014
NTNP for 6 cycles, due Oct. 2016!

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November 5th, 2012, 01:51 PM
Mega Super Mommy
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I am so so sorry My heart is breaking for you. I know there is nothing I can do or say to make you feel better but I wish I can be there to give you a real hug.

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November 5th, 2012, 04:02 PM
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So, so sorry
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Jenny (34) & Scott (40)
TTC #1 since 1/11, Unexplained Infertility
M/C 2/12
Polyp Removal 11/12
4 failed IUIs

IVF #1
Started stims 9/27/13
ER 10/8/13 - 24 eggs, 15 fertilized!
Blast transfer 10/13/13, 4 snowbabies
Very faint 10/18/13 (5dp5dt)

Beta #1 10/23 - 339!!!
Beta #2 10/25 - 856!!!
U/S 11/14 - Heart rate 144!

Abigail arrived 6/28/14!

FET #1
Blast transfer 2/16/17
Very faint 2/21/17 (5dp5dt)
Beta #1 2/27 - 329!!!
Beta #2 3/1 - 995!!!
U/S 3/20 - Heart rate 157!

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November 5th, 2012, 04:41 PM
KatieKat's Avatar TTC #1
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Oh Keri-Ann, I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am. It hurts my heart to read this Ditto to what everyone else said! I wish I could give you some real life hugs as well. We're all here from you - PM me if you want. Sending you lots of for January. Love and lots of
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November 5th, 2012, 08:05 PM
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I am SO sorry I can't even imagine what it must feel like...
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November 5th, 2012, 09:01 PM
Wizza's Avatar TTC our first since 2009
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I'm sorry I'm so glad you have those frozen embies though.
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November 5th, 2012, 09:16 PM
mrsEuphoria1's Avatar Veteran
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Ouch! I'm so sorry!! Was really hoping you would finally get what you deserve so badly =/ *hugs*
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November 6th, 2012, 11:01 AM
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oh no! Im soooooooooo sorry sweetie...

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November 7th, 2012, 08:39 AM
wastcougr's Avatar TTCMA as of July 2014
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I'm so sorry, Keri-Ann... I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel right now, and I know you have the frozen embryos as options still, but I'm sure that doesn't help much in the NOW of your disappointment. When you're ready, you have something to look forward to in January, however.

Keep your chin up and know that all of us will be thinking/praying about how happy you are when you do get PG.

Me: 41, DH: 44 (He has a 15-year-old from a previous marriage)
I'm a Type 1 diabetic (28 years and counting), and I've had gastric bypass (Dec, 2013 - currently at goal weight)

Started with an RE on 7/23/2014 and so far:

SA came back with 44 million, 27.3% alive
Fibroids present, endometriosis suspected, had surgery in Dec 2014 to correct
HSG normal - both tubes open

Cycle 1: August, 2014 - Natural, failed

Cycle 2: September, 2014 - Chemical Pregnancy

Cycle 3: October, 2014 - Failed IUI

Cycle 4: November, 2014 - Failed IUI

Cycle 5: December, 2014 - Missed due to surgery

Cycle 6: January, 2015 - Failed IUI

Cycle 7: February, 2015 - Failed IUI

Cycle 8: March, 2015 - Natural cycle, failed

Cycle 9 - IVF #1: April, 2015 - 13 eggs retrieved, 8 fertilized, 4 transferred (3-day), 4 frosties. Chemical pregnancy.

Cycle 10: Natural cycle in preparation for FET in June, 2015.
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November 8th, 2012, 01:05 PM
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So sorry, Keri-Ann. Hoping so very hard that everything sticks in January. XOXO
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