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June 28th, 2013, 08:18 AM
KellJoO's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I woke up this morning with a feeling of disappointment burning through me. I couldn't figure out why. As I got ready for work, it started coming back to me....... the dream I had.

I had a dream last night that we found out we were some how pregnant. 14 weeks and we had no idea. Everything was the same as it is now in life, we were prepping for our wedding in September, I was on BC, and we were in complete shock but utter JOY that somehow this happened. Not when we had wanted it to happen, we wanted to wait until after the wedding, but maybe it was MEANT to happen now?

I wasn't feeling right, and clothes were getting tighter so we went to the doctor and found out I was 14 weeks pregnant. Immediately I was happy I was that far along......thru the worry stage.

I started crying when I realized it was just a dream and thats why I had this overwhelming sense of sadness and disappointment in me when I woke up.

Its been 4 months - almost 5 since our loss and I still struggle with it from time to time. The sense of contentment and happiness I had those short few weeks I knew I was pregnant were amazing. I guess I worry that I wont feel that again when we do get pregnant again, that I'll be so worried something else is going to happen. I want to be able to enjoy it and feel that way again..... I think I had a glimmer of that feeling in my dreams again last night so maybe it will happen.

Anyone else have dreams like that related to TTC and they feel so real?
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6 lbs 13 oz 18.25"
Two in Heaven
2/7/2013 (6w4d)
5/22/2015 (4w3d)

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June 28th, 2013, 08:39 AM
Nicholle ttc's Avatar TTC our first!
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So sorry Kelly. Yep, I've had pregnancy dreams that feel so real and wake up crying. It's tough. We're here for you!
TTCing since August 2011
Me (33)-LP on the short side, but no other abnormalities
DH (37)-slightly subfertile morphology and motility

Natural cycles-August 2011-July 2012
August 2012-October 2012 clomid and progesterone
November 2012-IUI
December 2012, cysts from IUI, on bcp

January 2013-February 2013, long protocol IVF
15 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 7 fertilized with ICSI
All 7 made it to 5 day transfer, 2 were transferred
Only 1 frozen snowbaby
1st IVF

May 10, 2013, lap sx, Stage 1 endo

June 2013 - MA Round 2
Femara + hcg shot
IUI # 2

FET tentatively scheduled for 10/31/13

Have never seen a bfp.

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June 28th, 2013, 08:50 AM
momology's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I have been there too many times. It can be so hard to shake off and a really rough way to start the day. They just feel so real. . .

I hope the rest of your day goes better!


Cautiously expecting Seamonkey #2 Due Oct 4th

Missing our angels:
Molar pregnancy loss (12 weeks) - 1/2013
Missed Miscarriage (10 weeks) - 6/2013
Early Miscarriage (5 weeks) - 12/2016

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June 28th, 2013, 10:04 AM
plan4fate's Avatar I may bend, but not break
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Yup, been there. One of them was so rough I went and crawled in bed with Reme and held him for the rest of the night. He was confused, poor kid.
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June 28th, 2013, 10:32 AM
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Yes, sadly I've been there too and have woken up in tears

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