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July 9th, 2013, 01:17 PM
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Ok I have to spill this somewhere, and I feel most comfortable doing it here!

For the past 5 days I've been having dreams about this one guy I know. You know, *those* kind of dreams. We don't actually do the deed in them, but it's one of those sneaky, trying to get away with i kind of dreams.

It's so bad, b/c I wake up feeling guilty, worrying if I talk in my sleep, and then thinking "OMG this has got to stop!!!" Then it just stays with me all day!!

He owns a business in the one neighborhood I work with for my job, so we interact probably once or twice a month (part of my job is working with local business owners, and his business is very community oriented and active in the neighborhood).

He has NINE KIDS. NINE!!!! And he's 32, and they're all with his wife. I mean, when do you ever hear of that nowadays? Especially from someone who isn't with that Quiverfull movement or whatever it's called (the "19 kids and counting" people).

Ugh. I just hate when I have these dreams, b/c then I feel like they feed stupid school-girl crushes. I love my husband with all my heart. Do you ever have stuff like this happen??
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July 9th, 2013, 08:18 PM
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lol, I have dreams of other men yes. Usually I don't know them at all.

I don't doubt DH's fertility.. he has one child already. I'm pretty sure it's me who is broken.
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July 10th, 2013, 07:12 AM
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I have had the occasional dream - like Ashley I usually dont actually know who they are and most of the time half way through the dream they turn into DH somehow

It is rough to wake up after things like that things always feel a little funny Try and shake it off and dont think about the dream too much when you first wake up. I find I forget them a lot faster that way.
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July 10th, 2013, 07:30 AM
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Yea... I've had those kinds of dreams too. But ya know what? I bet your DH does too! LOL Its normal... and its not like you can control it. Dont feel guilty.

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July 10th, 2013, 08:17 AM
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Both DH and I have those types of dreams. Sometimes it is with each other and sometimes it is with other people. We usually share details, except if it is someone in real life we leave out names. It doesn't really bother us because we usually both end up getting something out of it if you KWIM!

I wouldn't worry about it, it's natural!

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July 10th, 2013, 08:48 AM
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I have had a dream like that too. I always feel guilty when I wake up. I definitely don't think it means we love our DH any less.
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July 10th, 2013, 09:44 AM
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Ok thanks for making me feel better girls

My coworker said, "You're only dreaming about him because he represents a fertility god in your dreams." ha!
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