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August 21st, 2013, 06:09 AM
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I went in for my 8 week ultrasound yesterday and they found no heartbeat. I am scheduled for a D&C first thing tomorrow morning. I am starting to feel pretty broken ladies. I will update my journal with all the details.
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August 21st, 2013, 06:22 AM
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Elle.

I am so sorry. My heart aches for you.

I am here for you. I know there are no words for you right now, but please know I'm here. Hugs.
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August 21st, 2013, 07:15 AM
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Oh Elle, I'm so sorry. If you want to talk PM me or fb me. I wish I had the words to take the pain away.
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August 21st, 2013, 07:45 AM
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I am so sorry Elle! I will be sending lots of T&P's your way. Please keep us updated on how you are doing.
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August 21st, 2013, 08:02 AM
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No. I refuse to accept this. My heart is breaking for you. This isn't fair. I'm so upset. Elle, I'm sorry. There aren't words for this.
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August 21st, 2013, 08:16 AM
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OH my gosh. I am very heart broken for you. I am so sorry Elle. We are here for you. I wish I could give you a big hug. :_(
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August 21st, 2013, 09:11 AM
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I am so sorry Elle!
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August 21st, 2013, 09:35 AM
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I'm so sorry, Elle. I will be in touch through PM. I wish I could give you a big hug.
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August 21st, 2013, 09:48 AM
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August 21st, 2013, 11:47 AM
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Oh Elle.. *hugs* I have no words... I can say.. when you didn't come back and update... something inside told me it wasn't good.

I'm here if you need me.
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August 21st, 2013, 12:40 PM
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Oh my god Elle....I am so sorry. I know that there are no words for this....
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August 21st, 2013, 02:52 PM
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Elle, I know there is nothing any of us can say to make this feel any better.
But I am truly so sorry and my heart aches for you and your husband
Please let me know if you need an ear to listen

Sending you a huge hug along with prayers
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August 21st, 2013, 02:56 PM
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Oh no.. I don't know you too much but I have read your post and knew you were pg. when I read this post my heart sunk. I am so sorry Elle. I'm speechless. My heart and prayers go out to you.
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August 21st, 2013, 04:01 PM
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Thank you so so much ladies for all of your support. It really means so much to me I may be MIA for a few days depending on how surgery goes tomorrow morning but I will try and get on or at least message one of you to let yall know how it went.

I am hoping to jump back in with both feet on Monday and hoping to have a more positive attitude. You guys really are the best!!!
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August 21st, 2013, 07:00 PM
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Take all the time that you need. We are here for you! T&Ps for tomorrow's surgery.
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Me (33)-LP on the short side, but no other abnormalities
DH (37)-slightly subfertile morphology and motility


Natural cycles-August 2011-July 2012
August 2012-October 2012 clomid and progesterone
November 2012-IUI
December 2012, cysts from IUI, on bcp

January 2013-February 2013, long protocol IVF
15 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 7 fertilized with ICSI
All 7 made it to 5 day transfer, 2 were transferred
Only 1 frozen snowbaby
1st IVF


May 10, 2013, lap sx, Stage 1 endo

June 2013 - MA Round 2
Femara + hcg shot
IUI # 2


FET tentatively scheduled for 10/31/13

Have never seen a bfp.






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August 21st, 2013, 09:03 PM
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Oh hun I'm so so sorry. My heart s breaking for you.
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August 21st, 2013, 09:15 PM
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What time is your surgery tomorrow, if you don't mind me asking? I know I will have to calculate out the time difference, but I will be thinking of you!!
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August 22nd, 2013, 03:48 PM
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I'm so sorry. Praying for you.
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August 22nd, 2013, 04:30 PM
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Surgery was at 6:00 AM this morning and everything went really well. The doctor said things were looking good and we set up a follow up appointment for 2 weeks from now for the results. I will update with the details in my journal Thanks for always being here ladies.
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Missed Miscarriage (10 weeks) - 6/2013
Early Miscarriage (5 weeks) - 12/2016


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August 22nd, 2013, 07:15 PM
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Oh no... I'm so sorry. Praying for you, I can't imagine what you must be feeling.
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