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October 20th, 2005, 02:35 PM
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after going through all that noncence with feeling terrible and having all the pregnancy signs, i now feel very decieved and upset.
i took a test today and it came out negative!........i can't believe how decieved i feel, to think that my own body can fool me into thinking i'm pregnant when i'm not!..................and the really dumb thing is.....i STILL have all the symptems!
how on earth does THAT work??????

has anyone else had this problem......cos i still have all the symptems of pregnancy, so what on earth is going on?

Lyn x
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October 20th, 2005, 03:21 PM
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i cant say its happened to me bc in reallity this is my first month ttc and i'm on my 2ww...but i too feel like i could possibly have some of the symptoms of a preggo girl but then i also stop to think about it...can i be so anxious and can my desire be so strong to conceive that i'm making myself think that i am...feeling all these "new" things. i think its going to be like this for most of all the "new comers" to the ttc clan. we are all so desperately wanting to be preggo...i'm sorry that you weren't this time around but thank god next try is but a few weeks away!! i'm sorry but dont feel disappointed or upset, just remember when the time is right it WILL happen.
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October 20th, 2005, 03:43 PM
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First off let me say what your feeling is perfectly normal - most women who start the TTC route go through (particularly when they start) times they swear they are pregnant, only to be disappointed. It is natural and we understand.

Part of the problem is we want it so bad that we go on hyper-sensative alert to every twinge, pain and feeling we have during the 2WW (or should it be the 2WT - with the T standing for Torture>) - feelings we dismissed before we started TTCing are suddenly a "sure sign" that we must be preggers. It is human nature.

Also we have now become so in-tune with our cycles that we start to notice things that we may have alway experienced, but never really paid attention to. I know I never really paid much attention to my CM before, now I know what is going to be like throughout my cycle

The other part of the problem is many symptoms for pregnancy and AF are the same - making it hard to tell what it is. On top of that everyone's symptons are different. For example I have lots of creamy CM after I O, some ladies dry up, but get lots when they are pregnant.

I cannot promise you it will get any easier, but I can tell you it is OK - your feelings are perfectly normal and we all understand.

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October 20th, 2005, 03:50 PM
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Donna said it all PERFECTLY. I never knew I had CM untill I TTC. It's weird. You begin to noitice EVERYTHING, and I know it's frustrating, but hang in there. You, as well as everybody else here will get the BFP they deserve, and when you do, we'll all be here to congratulate you. Sorry for the BFN, but I'm hoping you get a BFP soon.


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October 21st, 2005, 12:50 PM
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Awwww.......you guys are all so nice here!, i'm so glad there are other people out there like me......i was feeling so alone for a moment there!
i guess i forgot that i have only been trying for 4 months......there are plenty of wemen here who have been trying for much longer!..............i still feel really bad, but at least now i stop and think more about everyone else!
i feel bad for all those wemen who have been trying for longer and still have not had any results!

i am so sorry to everyone for being a little selfish, i really hope i didn't hurt anyones feelings!

LOADS AND LOADS of baby dust for EVERYONE!!!!

Lyn x

(thankyou for understanding!)
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October 23rd, 2005, 10:52 AM
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I agree with Donna also....My mind played sooo many tricks with me last month, but here I am in the 2WW again...Hold strong, it can still happen for you!

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October 23rd, 2005, 04:20 PM
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Just remember, it's not over until AF shows!!! I had a friend who didn't get her BFP until 16dpo. Hang in there, maybe it's just too early
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