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October 3rd, 2010, 09:59 AM
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BECAUSE SHE WON'T KEEP HER CLOTHES ON!

She has successfully learned how to upzip, unbutton, etc EVERYTHING. She takes her diaper off too which makes it worse. Then, she'll pee on her bed. This only happens at nighttime or naptime. I've had to wash her sheets like a thousand times. No matter how I discipline her or talk to her she will not keep them on. So please for the love of everything that is holy, help me! I'm getting so frustrated.

We were working on potty training, but she's afraid of the potty. She cries and whines until we take her off of it. I don't know what else to do!
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October 3rd, 2010, 10:20 AM
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Duct tape the diaper around her waist
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October 3rd, 2010, 10:30 AM
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I've thought about it. Is that okay though? Haha. Or would that give me the bad mom award for taping her diaper on...
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October 3rd, 2010, 11:06 AM
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Kaley went through a phase like that. You know the under shorts that go with dresses? We kept those on her ALL THE TIME. Much harder for her to get them off versus just a skirt or shorts of pants. I also did her diaper backwards a couple of times.
She still prefers to be without clothes, but she doesn't remove her diaper anymore.
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October 3rd, 2010, 11:17 AM
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She knows how to take those little shorts off too, the little bugger. I never thought about putting the diaper on backwards though! I'ma gonna try that.
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October 3rd, 2010, 11:30 AM
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I pretty much keep Ivy in Onsies so she can't pull the diapers off. If you're going to try tape, personally I'd go with medical tape. It's strong but when you need to take the diaper off it tears easily when you pull it the right way. I don't think tape=bad mom of the year. lol
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October 3rd, 2010, 11:57 AM
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I was going to suggest taking the diaper on backwards but I was too late

When I saw this title I was thinking it was much worse.. kind of how Tanja is
cloths off... on the table and dances...
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October 3rd, 2010, 12:29 PM
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I've tried putting two onesies on her and putting her in a onesie+one piece outfit but she's a smartie pants and taught herself how to take even those off.

I'll try the medical tape and putting the diaper on backwards. I'm ordering a potty from babiesrus, it has high ratings so we'll see. It's just so freaking annoying walking into her room and seeing her little naked butt (even though its cute!). She thinks she's hilarious though...
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October 3rd, 2010, 12:29 PM
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Ignore the behavior whenever possible and praise the heck out of her for putting on clothes.

Not advised: DIY Uh, Duct Tape Baby Bjorn - Daddy Types

For potty training, find her most favorite-st activity that can be restricted to the bathroom and offer it only while on the toilet/potty.
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October 3rd, 2010, 03:01 PM
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I found I was able to get Kenz used to the potty by distraction. We'd read a book on it, let her have a drink, etc. until she no longer balked at sitting on it.
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October 3rd, 2010, 03:38 PM
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I agree on the duct tape for the diaper

As for the taking off clothes, Lily is the same way. I was the same way growing up. I would get home from school, and within 10 feet of the door have all my clothes off. I HATED clothes. My parents didn't really push me to wear anything but undies in the house, and even now, I hate clothes. I usually go topless, but always have at least boxers or PJ pants on.

I don't really see the harm in letting a kid be mostly naked in the house, and just stress the need to keep clothes on when in public or when company is over. Lily can be without clothes if family is over, but knows she has to have clothes on when friends are over.

Kind of funny, yet not so funny story (it's one of those looking back stories that are funny now, but certainly wasn't then!) When I was about 12 I got into a huge fight with my sister, that was 19 then. My parents were at work, and apparently my sister and I were yelling so loud with our windows open that our neighbors heard. They called the cops on us! So the cops show up, and I'm hiding in the bathroom because I don't have any clothes on. So I refused to come out because I didn't want them to see me naked. My sister gets me clothes, I put them on, and then the cops get mad thinking my sister was sexually abusing me, because I was "too old to be running around naked." Well they called our parents and they came home and assured the cops that I really just hated clothes and never wore it, and I certainly wasn't being abused. My parents were soooooo mad at us! I don't even remember what the fight was over, but I look back and have to giggle a little at the whole situation that happened. They weren't worried much about us yelling, just the fact that I was naked, lol.
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October 3rd, 2010, 04:09 PM
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I agree on the duct tape for the diaper

As for the taking off clothes, Lily is the same way. I was the same way growing up. I would get home from school, and within 10 feet of the door have all my clothes off. I HATED clothes. My parents didn't really push me to wear anything but undies in the house, and even now, I hate clothes. I usually go topless, but always have at least boxers or PJ pants on.

I don't really see the harm in letting a kid be mostly naked in the house, and just stress the need to keep clothes on when in public or when company is over. Lily can be without clothes if family is over, but knows she has to have clothes on when friends are over.

Kind of funny, yet not so funny story (it's one of those looking back stories that are funny now, but certainly wasn't then!) When I was about 12 I got into a huge fight with my sister, that was 19 then. My parents were at work, and apparently my sister and I were yelling so loud with our windows open that our neighbors heard. They called the cops on us! So the cops show up, and I'm hiding in the bathroom because I don't have any clothes on. So I refused to come out because I didn't want them to see me naked. My sister gets me clothes, I put them on, and then the cops get mad thinking my sister was sexually abusing me, because I was "too old to be running around naked." Well they called our parents and they came home and assured the cops that I really just hated clothes and never wore it, and I certainly wasn't being abused. My parents were soooooo mad at us! I don't even remember what the fight was over, but I look back and have to giggle a little at the whole situation that happened. They weren't worried much about us yelling, just the fact that I was naked, lol.
It's not that there's harm in letting her be naked because believe me, I love watching her cute little butt run around! It's a problem though because she pees on everything, lol.
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October 3rd, 2010, 05:40 PM
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Thanks Melinda, I didn't think about that =D I put her diaper on backwards tonight so when I go check on her in a few hours we'll see if that did any good!
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October 3rd, 2010, 07:55 PM
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This is the reason, we would try the potty training, then test to see if he was ready. If not, we just waited and went back to it.

So it was never a hard thing. So when he was about 2 1/2 we decided to go straight to underwear 24/7. After a day or two of occasional accidents, he was potty trained. It was the easiet thing ever! But that is because we waited till he was ready. So I will be doing the same with our new son.

If it's just the matter of her taking her clothes off..have you tried putting her in pants that button and zip. Those would be a lot harder to take off.


Also go ahead and try the underwear approach. She might like having the cute little pink and princess underwear.
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