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November 15th, 2012, 11:13 AM
AIK112018's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Beta from tuesday was 25, beta from today was 24.

Bleeding (brown) and clotting.. cramping...

We arent going to be trying again.. this was it for us.

I just wanted to say goodbye, and thank you so much for all of your support and help with everything. You ladies are truly amazing and wonderful. I hope you all get your miracle babies soon!
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November 15th, 2012, 11:44 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss You will be missed greatly. I hope someday down the road if you feel ready to try again that things will work out much better for you. This is HORRIBLE news and there really is nothing I can say to make you feel better, which is the worst. I wish I could take your pain away somehow.
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November 15th, 2012, 12:44 PM
avaught's Avatar mama to sweet 3 yr old
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I'm so sorry. I wish I could say anything that would make you feel better and I know that it's not going to help. We will miss you so much and I hope you still look in on us when you get time. Please update us if anything happens/ changes/ just an update!

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November 15th, 2012, 01:25 PM
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I'm so sorry, Elizabeth

I wish these things didn't happen. I don't understand why this happens after trying for so long. *hugs* hon.
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November 15th, 2012, 01:33 PM
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I'm so sorry for you i wish i could somehow take your pain away. If you ever feel like you're ready to give it another shot (or even if you don't) you are always welcome here

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November 15th, 2012, 02:00 PM
Frozenoj's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Oh, Elizabeth. I'm so sorry. It's just messed up how this happens to us when we've been waiting so long. Finally we get hope only to have it cruelly snatched away. Know that I am thinking about you and wishing I could give you a hug right now.

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November 15th, 2012, 02:20 PM
captivate's Avatar Sticky thoughts please...
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Oh Elizabeth, I am so so sorry.. I do not understand this world.

You know where I am if you ever want to talk. I am going to miss you bunches. Love ya girl. xxxxx
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November 15th, 2012, 02:49 PM
AIK112018's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Thank you all...
Just wish this was over with... Still leaking brown...
I want the red so I know its happening.. not understanding the old blood...

Waiting for the doctor to call me back after my hcg levels were told to me today. First nurse I spoke to said she will have him call and then "decide what to do next" like there was hope.
2nd nurse I spoke to sounded very remorseful, like there was no hope.

I just want him to call and just tell me its happening I want it over with.
I have searched the entire internet... there is no way this is a viable pregnancy (that i have found) with those levels of hcg.

This is my first m/c... and its giving me flashbacks of when I lost avery... doesnt help that his birthday and the day he passed away on is this month either.

Thank you for being so supportive... I have no one else to talk to about this besides you.
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November 15th, 2012, 06:21 PM
Aillidh's Avatar Nár lagaí Dia do lámh!
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I'm so so sorry, I wish I had the words.
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November 16th, 2012, 07:39 AM
BabyX's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry. ((HUGS)) I wish that there was something to say or do to make your pain go away. Just remember that we are all here for you and you should feel free to talk about what's going on as much as you want.
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November 16th, 2012, 08:06 AM
Caerus's Avatar Happy as a (Tired) Clam
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I'm so very sorry. Wish I had the words to help with the pain and uncertainty.
Remember that you can always come talk to us when you need a shoulder.

Thanks to Bokkechick for the lovely siggie.

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November 16th, 2012, 08:50 AM
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I'm always here to listen. I'm so sorry to see this. I wish i had the words....
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