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December 7th, 2017, 03:38 AM
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Hi everyone. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 3 years now. It was discovered that both my tubes are all tied up. That's causing the trouble. I went for a surgery to have them sraightened out. For some reason that didn't work out. We decided to opt for an egg donor followed by IVF. We got an appointment and everything. However, since then DH has been quite distant. He was quite supportive before. Now, its like he just doesn't care anymore. He even missed the appointment. I called him multiple times to remind him, only to find his phone switched off. In the end, I had to reschedule the appointment. What do you think is the matter? I have tried talking to him. However, he just closes up and says its nothing.
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December 10th, 2017, 06:51 PM
Join Date: Dec 2017
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Hey Sweetie,

We also struggled for 3 years. I had stage 4 endometriosis. i know this journey is a roller coaster of emotions for both the wife and the husband. Most of the time we just handle things differently, my husband often retracts and goes quiet when he is trying to process things and when he is going through a hard time where as i am very emotionally driven at times so its not hard to see what im feeling. Have you possibly tried sitting him down and really asking him how he feels about this, how he feels about the egg donor, is he comfortable with it?
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