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May 21st, 2008, 09:15 AM
Eleysia's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I also wanted to say how sorry i am. I really wish that no one ever had to go through this. I know that you probably dont want to hear this but id still go in for that other HCG, but id wait a few days. Just to make sure that your numbers are going down. Id hate to see you not go in, and retain something and not know about it. Please, if you need anything, im here.

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May 21st, 2008, 09:40 AM
dee68's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I'm not going.

There is no way, after seeing the kinda flow I'm seeing, that I am pg anymore.

I'm not going to put myself through that. I wasn't seeing that before I went to bed last night, so I was like, I'm going in. But now, now it's very very unmistakenly a m/c, cause with what I've lost no way a baby can still be in there.... I refuse to go to the pregnancy loss board cause I am still mourning Gracie and that would be such a trigger, so I'm just going to work, I haven't been in like two days, and I'm waiting for the doctor to call me back.

I wish I'd never gotten my hopes up. I don't see how you girls do it, I really don't. It's so heartbreaking, yet you all are so strong, and I'm so weak. I've had multiple losses, and no matter how early, each one was conceived with hope and a "maybe this is it, please let it be" And here I am, pregnant for what seemed like days, then it's ripped from me. I'll stop rambling, I need to go anyway. It's all just so cruel. We want babies more than ever, but Mother NAture laughs in our faces, and teases us. Alright I will really stop now. I'm just hurt and angry and very upset. I'm sorry.

I wish you all have a H&H nine months girls, and I will definitely keep you all in my T&P.[/b]
Please dont ever think you are weak !
I am so very sorry this is happening to you again. Hopefully your dr. will do some testing to find out what is going on.
please know that we are here for you and wish you the very best.


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May 21st, 2008, 10:08 AM
Brittanie's Avatar just me
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Oh honey, I'm so very sorry about this. I hate that you're going through this AGAIN.

As far as feeling weak...we all do sometimes. It's only natural after going through what you have in the last several months to feel fragile and broken. I hope that later you can look back on this time and see the strength we all see, but for now, know you aren't alone in your weakness.

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May 21st, 2008, 10:51 AM
jademyst13's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry you are going through this. You are no weaker than the rest of us.
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May 21st, 2008, 10:51 AM
Sabina's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry
Thank you Jaidynsmum for the beautiful siggy
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